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Should I buy this baby a gift?

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Annteeta · 09/10/2011 19:53

When my nephew got married 2 months ago, he didn't invite any of us aunts and uncle from his mother's side. We hadn't fallen out and were not sure of the reason. His bride was pregnant and they said it would be a quiet do although about 50 guests were present as it turned out. We nevertheless sent cards, gifts and cheques which he cashed, but 2 months later, to add insult to injury we have had no word of acknowledgement or thanks. The baby is due very soon, do you think I should buy this child a gift after the lack of gratitude for my gift and if I do, is there a way I could tactfully prompt some kind of acknowledgment from him? He lives 200 miles away and I don't often get chance to see him.

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Annteeta · 10/10/2011 21:00

I don't think anyone gives a gift just for gratitude but to receive none is a snub and quite inconsiderate towards another's feelings. If someone communicated with you face to face, would it be OK to ignore them? This is no different in my opinion. I suspect those that think this behaviour is acceptable may be the nes that never acknowledge. You will make someone's day if you take that small amount of trouble - believe me!

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