DH is emailling old friend, 10 times in three weeks......

[ThePosieParker]

He left his fb page up, in fact mine was up at the same time and they merged....so I could see my profile picture and wall but his name on the right and his messages, was weird. So in his messages, which I thought were mine until I clicked, were 10 exchanges from him and an old school friend. Lots of smilies, ggl (not lol which was cringeworthy enough) and little mention of me.

Now I wouldn't put cheating passed anyone, let alone my DH...rumours have not exactly never mentioned him, even on the internet. We have had many an issue in our relationship, but cheating would be the end if I ever found out for sure. I'm not sure I'd be heartbroken, just wouldn't ever forget.

So AIBU to sit him down and have a talk about the route to cheating and how one minute your marriage is dull, you catch up with an old friend, you reminisce and then hey presto you're having to decide whether or not you'll kiss.....

"I am simply pointing out what steps we can avoid to not cheat....."

I'd feel deeply patronised and offended if my husband gave me a lecture about how to avoid cheating.

Posie, I recall your previous threads and the odd comment in between and now this.

I agree with Enorma. I thought it then, I think it now. He's playing you for a fool.

Let's assume that it the majority of the claims made on those sites are true, then the claims about your H are not only true, but also commonly known. There is nobody expressing any shock, surprise or stating that they never knew this about him.

I'm so sorry, but the man you married appears to be a lecherous creep.

((((hugs))))

I've not really been committed emotionally for a looooong time, just need to get into shape and execute an exit!! (I already have a plan)

Posie...how long term is this plan, love ?

Love, you need to do what is best for you, in your own time.

Whatever help, support, love and hand holding you need? just say?

((hugs)))

you've posted about this guy before, he's a nob. Yes he probably is cheating on you.

Posie, no preessure sorry, how are you doing?

It's get out of debt so I have a house long term .