to think impure thoughts about a friend's husband

[thruppence]

I know I am, but please tell me everybody does this!

I have no intention of having an affair, very happily married, lovely husband .... but for some reason he keeps popping into my head in a most improper way.

He's not even that attractive.

Is this something to worry about or just something to make mopping the floor more interesting?

It can happen, yes. I am stupidly happy with Mr Darcy, but there is a new friend whose boyfriend has a glint in his eye whenever he looks at me, and I have this feeling that we would get together had neither of us partners. It's just the way it is. I have absolutely no intention of being unfaithful, and he doesn't either by the looks of it. But there is a connection.

So... speaking for both of us ... as long as it stays in the head and isn't taken any further.

Oh little mini crushes are not only fine, but essential. My DH knows about a couple of them. He also knows I'd never do anything. I also know I'd be out on my ear if I did .

They don't mean anything but just because I'm married and love my husband doesn't mean I'm immune to the wily charms of other men !

I'm one who let it go too far and a few very drunken cheeky snogs. It was AWFUL! Everyone found out, marriages stayed together but whenever i think about it oooh the shame.

I have a crush on someone.

He's single - I think he is saving himself for me. Just in case I get bored of my husband, or for some reason need a replacement.

Which of course, I won't. But I still fancy him.

Of course there isn't anything wrong with it. I also imagine you are thinking about shagging him senseless, not what sort of an ideal partner he'd make - so the fact he treats her like crap is neither here nor there (for the purposes of your question - it is highly relevant otherwise).

Suitably reassured thank you - and it looks like I should be adding a few more to the list, just so i don't get to hung up on this one

I fancy that Tom Hardy off the television at the minute. Look on youtube for his interview with Alex Zane. Hel-lo!!

Nah, not doing it for me.

I'll stick with my unattractive misogynist shits if it's all the same to you

at unattractive misogynist shits - just my type too

I never think about other men, I find some tv stars etc nice looking but I dont linger on it.

Thoughtcrime ain"t on the statute books yet.