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AIBU?

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AIBU to not want to teach because it would mean working with other teachers?

250 replies

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 08:56

Ok, my hard hat is on and I'm ready for the onslaught, but here goes! I had a great career before my DCs came along, I loved working and was good at my job. I worked in a great environment, had really good people working with me and we all got on in and out of work. Fast forward 4 years I have been and will be for the forseeable future a SAHM, I love it and will stay home until my lo goes to school at least. Afterwards I could stay home if I want to but lately I have been thinking about future careers. I wouldn't want to go back to my old role as I would never see my kids! So here's my problem, lots of people have suggested teaching and I would love to make a difference to kids, I think I have a lot to give and I am willing to put in the hard work, but there is one big problem, other teachers! First I should say my DH is a Deputy Head and I have lots of good friends who are teachers and when I tell them my worries they tend to agree! My oh worked abroad so we were in close quarters with the school and I have done voluntary work in a few schools and I have never come across such moaning, b&tchy people in any other setting. On their own all lovely people, get two together it's a nightmare. Seriously teachers talk about work on nights out, at people's parties, in the park, probably bed if they are married. My OH wouldn't but knows not to on pain of death! I know teachers take the p out of kids, parents and anyone else they feel like. Most have never worked out of a school setting so have no idea what the rest of the world are up to. So AIBU to not want to teach because I don't like teachers or should I bite the bullet and hide in the loos at lunchtime?

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Appuskidu · 01/10/2011 13:06

Would my doubts make me a bad teacher?

No, but your attitude would.

echt · 01/10/2011 13:07

Love the bit about teachers having "no idea where the rest of the world are"

Never heard this said about:

nurses
plumbers
doctors
police
dustbinmen
etc.
etc.
etc.

OP, I suggest you fuck off back to your great pre-children career, especially as you see your future colleagues as the problem, not yourself.

Yes, I am a teacher.

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:08

Ok green, I bow to your superior knowledge.

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Greensleeves · 01/10/2011 13:10

Oh yes thanks, I forgot to mention passive aggression. Another no-no.

marriedinwhite · 01/10/2011 13:11

As a parent and a professional I have never come across any other working people who moan as loudly and as regularly to their key stakeholders/customers about their work. I rather agree with you OP and I find it a tad offensive to listen to continual complaints to the customers about parents evenings, marking, rehearsing for school plays, etc.. It's all in the job description and if I were to complain to my customers in that way I would not keep my job. And honestly, I thought I would do a pgce when my dc started school and when they did I did lots for the school and loved helping the children but I listened to so many teachers whingeing continually when I was in there that I decided it wouldn't be the job for me - too many half empty glasses being drunk by people who don't know which side their bread's buttered. Any one heard of redundancies and lay offs in primaries and secondaries during this recession?

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:12

Ok but calling people thick is ok?

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echt · 01/10/2011 13:12

marriedinwhite go to TES boards and you'll find out.

Greensleeves · 01/10/2011 13:13

I didn't call you thick

I don't think you ARE thick

but your attitude stinks, and that IMO will be a problem for you if you pursue a career in teaching.

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:13

Because you will be teaching lots of thick (your words) kids. I hope for their sakes you grow up.

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echt · 01/10/2011 13:14

Oh, and marriedinwhite you are not a customer, unless your speaking of private education.

NorfolkNChance · 01/10/2011 13:14

Yep go and post this in Opinion on TES and get their views too.

echt · 01/10/2011 13:15

That should be "you're".

Feenie · 01/10/2011 13:18

Any one heard of redundancies and lay offs in primaries and secondaries during this recession?

Yes, married, lots.

You seem to be making a habit of posting on teaching threads to moan about teachers er....moaning this week.

And you are not a customer.

NorfolkNChance · 01/10/2011 13:19

Whole schools have closed near us, that enough of a recessional bite for you?

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:20

Norfolk I might be brave but I'm not stupid. ;)

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cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:21

Recessions are a whole other issue that everyone is unfortunately faced with ATM

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NorfolkNChance · 01/10/2011 13:21

Fair play, it is very scary in there (makes AIBU look like NetHuns!)

marriedinwhite · 01/10/2011 13:26

Echt, you have just pointed out what is wrong with the education system. I am very much a customer. I may not pay a state school at the point of delivery but I do pay through my taxes and I have the right to exercise choice. You have raised a very interesting point. We transferred our son to the independent sector at the end of Y4; and our daughter at the end of Y8. Actually I am more than a customer because now I pay twice once indirectly and once directly. Interestingly the contrast between the levels of customer care, the standard of education received in the two different sectors, the quality of the pastoral care and the collaboration between all members of the school community is incomparable.

I am very pleased that I was able to remove our daughter from what was supposed to have been one of London's best comprehensives because frankly the role models from the top down fell far short of what I reasonably expected from professional people who should have been setting standards of excellence for the young people therein. The other thing to point out Echt is that if the staff in the independent sector moan they have the good sense and good manners to restrict to the staffroom.

Feenie · 01/10/2011 13:31

More sweeping generalisations from married, there.

Teachers pay taxes too, married. By your logic, that would make us self-employed.

If anyone could be described as customers, it would be the children. But most definitely not their parents.

NonnoMum · 01/10/2011 13:32

If I were you I'd divorce your DH before he bores you to death.

tethersend · 01/10/2011 13:33

Actually married, even with your, err, interesting analogy, you have slipped up.

Your child is the customer, not you. We pay retrospectively for our own education through tax.

School is not there for you. You've had your education. Allegedly.

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:33

I would nonno, but he's really good in bed.

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CupOfBrownJoy · 01/10/2011 13:34

Please don't go into teaching, I don't think you'd be very good at it....

cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:35

Why so you say that cup?

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cakeoclock · 01/10/2011 13:40

Do not so. Fat fingers.

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