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To want to be left alone by shop assistants

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catwalker · 30/09/2011 09:36

Maybe it's my age and I'm giving off an air of bewilderment and confusion but there seems to be an increasing trend for shop assistants to ask if I need any help when I'm just browsing. Fine if I'm looking around obviously in need of help, but when I'm studying something I'd quite like to be left alone to think. I had a rare shopping trip yesterday and in some shops I was asked 4 or 5 times if I needed help (on some occasions more than once by the same assistant...). I was looking for birthday presents for my son and just wanted to be left alone to ponder whether various tops would fit him, which wallet would suit his needs best etc etc. Final straw was in M & S where I was deep in thought at the gadgety/gift counter and a young assistant came up to me, apologised for interrupting my shopping and then quizzed me about M&S cards. I know he was only doing his job so I managed to be polite. But really - should I get a special shopping t shirt with "BACK OFF!!" printed on it?!

Is it just me....?

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VFVF · 30/09/2011 15:53

Well I'm all for the shopping assistants asking if I want help. Once. I know they are just doing their job but in certain circumstances they need to back off.

For instance the last time I went to Ann Summers. 5 times the woman came up to me asking if I wanted help!! I started off polite, but each time my reply was less and less so. And in the end the only thing that made her go away was me saying rather loudly "I'm buying a vibrator! and I'm embarrased! leave me alone!

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