To still snoop on DH's ex GF's fb page?!

[Argos]

Ok I know I'm being damned unreasonable but why the hell do I do it?! Can't help myself and then feel really grubby and upset afterwards...

It's not tragic, it's what facebook was invented for. Stalk away!

I wouldn't do it because no outcome could make me feel happier than I did before snooping - if they have become millionaire supermodels that wouldn't make me feel good, and if they seemed to be having awful lives I would feel sad for them. And anything in the middle would just be dull - I have enough to do keeping up with actual friends' babies/new kitchens/engagements without getting additional information overload on someone I don't care about!

Here's an idea; block her, then if you ever get the urge to Facebook stalk her again you'll have a moment to think about it before you unblock her.

Then you might realise that it's madness and no good can come from it.

I have looked up some of my exes but more than one person with the same name came up and no photo so none the wiser .

OP yanbu, it's an understandable human instinct to be curious and methinks others are being a tad superior hard on you. Get it out of your system, after all there is only superficial info to be gained from fb, but I for one do not blame you for looking for some background to fill in the blanks. FB exists and so there is a huge temptation to look imo. Lots of people do it but most would deny that they do!

Am I weird that I don't find it a huge temptation to do this? I can see it when first dating, maybe, but not after marriage.