So... the gist is, my man was away on a course for four days and got back last night. I was all excited, waiting for for him with wine and candles but understanding he would be knackered. We chat for a few hours and go to bed, with him saying he wants to catch up on the footy. Fair enough, so I watch a programme while he does so next to me.
When it's finished, he rolls over to give me a cuddle and I'm thinking mmm lovely, so pleased to have him back I'm gonna get my smooch on! Yay! However. He then rolls back over to say he hasn't actually watched the football yet, and is going to do so now. It's after 1am by this point.
I am upset. He knows this. This morning I am playfully told not to be a grump, and that he understands I am pleased to see him but that I should be more flexible, as half an hour later when he had finished watching the football if I hadn't ignored him, well I'd have 'got my way'.
I feel like absolute shit. Like I'm way down on his list of priorities. AMIBU to feel that it's normal to expect him to be as excited about getting home as me, about getting back to each other? Or am I just being a brat?