To chuck My 18 yo Daughter out????????????????????????????

[Tortington]

Lots of question marks in the title definitely chav it up don't they

i am posting in AIBU becusae i want you to tell me i am.

18 yo dd, works and goes to college another town over, stays at her partners flat all week, msybe comes home once a week.

i love her to bits, shes everything to me - but i want her bedroom

dh snores and i fancy my own space. aibu to literally take thebed my daughter sleeps on away from her:?

Maryz has hit my experience on the nail. Number 2 son moved out and I spent £oodles doing the room up. New oak floor, new bed and bedding, new tallboy (I have never typed that word tallboy before. Yay I broke the tallboy duck!) and new blanket box, new tv, new curtains and finally new bedside table and lamp. Actually it cost more than £oodles.

The paint had hardly dried when he moved back. I do love him. Honestly I do. I just seemed to like him better when he had gone. I know I am a bad mum.....

so, dd comes home tonight and we have a discussion. i think we are 'sharing' her room - but i am painting it and moving my shit in.

she's tidied up and left now am a bit sad