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to expect dh not to go out getting pissed when I am 36 weeks pregnant??

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milkysmum · 17/09/2011 10:19

DH is by no means a raging drunk but does like to go out a couple if times a week to play snooker at the local pub etc. I am currently 36 weeks pregnant and we have a dd 2 1/2 years old. I am getting increasingly aware I could go into labour anytime over the next month and have asked dh on several occasions to not get drunk when he goes out at present as would need him to be sober should I go into labour- sort dd out/drive us to hospital etc. when I say this he appears to fully agree that this is reasonable and assures me he won't get pissed. Past few Friday nights though he has gone out and come back MORE drunk thatn he ever normally would??? Last night took the biscuit and he rolled in at 1am completly off his face- he even pissed on the stairs!!!!!! something he has never done in the 12 years we have been together. He's fast asleep now and when I challenge him later I know he will just deny being as drunk as he was (likely won't remember), play the whole thing down and then assure me he won't do it again. Is there a way I can handle this better? tempted to threaten to throw him out but know I won't carry it through so would be pointless?? Any advice welcome.

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WhiteTrash · 17/09/2011 13:09

When I read the title my first thought was 'Ahh lighten up!' but simce reading through the thread and seeing that he gets exceedingly drunk, thats just not fair. A bit pissed Id not mind, a taxi would get you to hospital and theres nowt like a labouring wife to sober a man right up. But to be SO drunk he pisses on the stairs renders him totally and utterly useless.

Pregnancy aside, its disgusting. You're DD might walk through it next time not to mention his absence the next while YOU scrub the carpet whilst he dozes!

No thanks, he's well out of line. Id not be letting him sleep thats for sure cheeky git. Id be going mental.

YADDNBU.

WhiteTrash · 17/09/2011 13:09

popcornmouse He's not 4!

milkysmum · 17/09/2011 15:19

Thanks for the support ladies- can you beleive the lazy git is still sleeping! I don't think I've ever slept till the afternoon in years- tomorow I might just not get up at all!

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SoftKittyWarmKitty · 17/09/2011 18:35

Why on earth didn't you and DC just go out?! Is he up yet?

Pedallleur · 17/09/2011 20:44

I would have used his toothbrush to scrub the carpet

SoftKittyWarmKitty · 17/09/2011 21:38

I once used my ex's toothbrush to clean the toilet, after I found out he'd cheated on me. Every time he brushed his teeth I smiled a secret smile to myself Grin.

WhiteTrash · 17/09/2011 22:00

Did he get up? Did you say anything to him?

Does he believe you yet that he wazzed on the stairs?

Jerseyellie · 18/09/2011 13:54

Soft kitty - that just made me lol. Love it.... Milkysmum - I hope you are getting lots of "me" time today :-)

landrover · 19/09/2011 22:32

op tell us what happened?

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