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to have got totally fecked of with my father today who has mod alz

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sunshinelifeisgood · 15/09/2011 23:22

Today was a fecking crap one and i am now struggling to be honest. I am one of five siblings (posted about him before).

Anyway, today I get over to his place and he is in bed (1pm) to go food shopping. Eventually I get him up (after him refusing having a strop etc) and get him bathed etc and off we go.

Dad has got it into his head lately that he was a singer (it actually was my dm who was the singer, she sang in local pubs etc). I drove him to the local supermarket and he fecking sang all the way through it, until I said "for fecks sake I cannot concentrate on the food shop with you singing in my fecking ear".
He lives in sheltered accom, so once we got back and I took him down to the garden he fecking carried on singing. The other residents were there and I must admit most are fine but some get pretty pissed of with him (and I dont blame them).
Im just fecked of tonight simple as that. :)

NO he is not ready for a care home.

OP posts:
Moominsarescary · 16/09/2011 22:47

Phone ss and get an assessment , looking after someone with altzheimers is a full time job and very stressful. It will get worse not better so please get some help

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