My dh has a friend who lives abroad. The friend, his wife and baby are coming to our country to visit soon and will be nearby but not in our town. Dh plans to go and meet up when they are here if he can (depends on exact days they are in the country and dh's work commitments etc) and has said that he will probably just go by himself.
Now aibu in thinking that if this friend and his wife and baby are coming to visit that we as a family should all go to see them and catch up? If dh goes by himself the wife and baby will not be left sitting in the hotel room twiddling their thumbs they will be with the friend chatting away with dh and included in the visiting, yet dh seems too think that I and our children should not be included.
I can't help feeling that this seems a bit unfair, would your other half do this or would you all go along as a family?
I can't decide if he's being unreasonable to want to go by himself or if I'm being unreasonable for thinking that we should all go along together.