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AIBU to expect DP to come to bed at the same time as me when he's feeling amorous...

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VelvetSnow · 05/09/2011 11:55

DP & I were flirting all day. You know what I mean, cheeky winks, flirty comments, double entendres, just a bit of fun really....

We are quite a flirty couple but we pretty much average twice a week when it comes to having sex.

Anyway, I went to bed last night around 10pm, he wanted to watch something on TV so stayed up later which did not bother me at all.

So, I'm fast asleep and all of a sudden I wake to feel him touching me and nuzzling my neck etc etc...

I'm like, "darling, I'm not at that place, I'm sleeping" He's like "aww come on, I've wanted you all day" .....

After about 3 'goes' he gets the message that it's not happening but I sense that he's a little huffy - I'm not that arsed because I'm still half asleep and intend to be fast asleep pretty soon :)

He gets up, puts on his dressing gown and says "I'm going downstairs for an hour" and huffs out of the bedroom. I didn't get much of a chance to talk to him this morning before I left for work - he was seeing to dd and I was getting ready but I still sense a little moodieness in the air. So now I feel guilty (don't worry it will pass, but it's annoyed me)

If he'd been wanting me all day then why the heck did he not come to bed with me? Why does he have to come up 2 hours later, interrupt my sleep then huff out of the bedroom because he didn't get his own way??

AIBU to expect DP to come to bed with me when he's 'in the mood' ?

OP posts:
VelvetSnow · 05/09/2011 13:01

point taken Honeydragon.

I laughed out loud at your post...

OP posts:
Whatmeworry · 05/09/2011 13:03

Nothing like a late night no-end-away to put a man in a sulk. You'd think they'd learn...

Honeydragon · 05/09/2011 13:08

late night no-end-away

AnyFucker · 05/09/2011 14:44

hully I also pinched your line on another thread

but I did give you a nod for the copyright on that one Grin

Hullygully · 05/09/2011 14:48

I'll share it, darlink.

AnyFucker · 05/09/2011 14:52

you can share mine leave him

that one works for most situations too Wink

SouthernFriedTofu · 05/09/2011 14:56

This winds me up as well. Dh goes to bed much later than I do too, so its always middle of the night. Angry this is made worse by the fact that no matter how tired I am I may bat him him off a couple times out of prinicipal but generaly I want it more than he does so will eventually give in cause I'm a tart have a healthy sexual appetite. Dh on the otherhand will happily roll over and ignore me the bastard if he is tired though.

I need to learn to cross my legs and go to sleep even if I am up for it so he'll learn to time it better. I can't fault a man who sulks (a bit) though as I am a sulker. I get really grumpy if I don't get it. Especially now as I'm pregnant

ownthreadhider · 05/09/2011 15:07

I think I sulk if OH ever refuses me Blush

AnyFucker · 05/09/2011 15:10

You shouldn't, OTH, it's not an attractive trait Grin

ownthreadhider · 05/09/2011 15:12

I'm realising ..... Confused Will try to do better!

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