Fully prepared to get flamed here - along the lines of what business is it of yours.....
I was in the park yesterday, and I noticed a Thai lady with two small blonde girls. I only briefly glanced at her, and it was pretty noticeable that she was not really a lady. Although she had on jeans and a ladies sweater, and had long hair in a ponyband, unless she had some very significant hormone issues, it was a man.
There was stubble, a very masculine body shape, forearms, shoulders, hands, no hips - and he/she reacted quite aggressively when one of the girls pulled his leg when he was on the phone - pushing her off very crossly. The girls themselves looked bizzare - very unkempt, unbrushed hair, and the older one, about 3 or 4, was in a full on polyester princess outfit and nothing else.
Something didn't quite ring true - obviously, if the family knows they are employing a man not a lady, that should be OK. AIBU to have thought twice about this, though? Obv I'm not going to do anything about it - but I think its not something you see every day?