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AIBU or is LEGO just a crap toy now

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RockyAddict · 29/08/2011 11:02

I have spent the morning playing with my six year old DS2 and his Lego. But my God, it's infuriating. He has collected lots of 'kits' which my DH puts together for him, but once they are broken apart and the pieces put into the 'Lego tub' that's it. You can never put them back together again. We keep the instructions but I have just spent half an hour looking for a few of the same bits to no avail. I was a real Lego kid in the 70's and I loved it, but now the bits are so small and the kits so complicated that I lose the will to create anything.
And don't get me started on the cost! £10 for a tiny Star Wars space ship and a couple of Storm Troopers.
AIBU?

I thank you for reading my rant!

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bumbleymummy · 29/08/2011 14:06

Yabu! Lego is a big favourite in this house. DS1 makes the kits over and over again as well as making his own creations. All the instructions are kept in a drawer and haven't been shreded and I don't think we've lost any major pieces either. I also disagree that the age guidelines are wrong. DS1 started making the first kits when he was 3 when DH showed him how to follow the instructions and he's been fine with them since. Always a good present in this house - hours of entertainment so great value for money as far as I'm concerned!

Whatmeworry · 29/08/2011 14:07

The idea is DCs make their own creations once the original has broken up.....thats the point of LEGO

MrsMellowDrummer · 29/08/2011 14:10

Depends how much they want to remake the kits a bit though doesn't it.

My children love lego. They spend hours every day playing with it. When they get a really good kit, my son in particular spends hours perusing instructions, and making it absolutely to the letter of the lego-law. Then he'll play with it, and keep it safe... for a while. Then it will probably get smashed up at some point, and if he doesn't feel like remaking it it goes back in the enormous generic lego tub, ready for his off-piste creations. He keeps the instructions, and if he wants to re-make he does - it can take him HOURS of raking through the box though to find tiny pieces sometimes. I don't mind - it keeps him well and truly occupied. And if he really can't find something he has to improvise.

My involvement is minimal. Really. Just let them get on with it themselves...

stellarpunk · 29/08/2011 14:11

I actually really love the exclusives kits but can't afford them just yet! Oh well, keep on saving!

bumbleymummy · 29/08/2011 14:13

They can do both whatmeworry. :) DS has a lot of city Lego so likes to build complete towns sometimes with the different sets and then play with the people in them. They can still have imaginative play with Lego even if they decide to follow the instructions.

nenevomito · 29/08/2011 14:16

I wish it was easier to buy lego not in kits. DS just likes building his own stuff and it grates to pay for a lego x y or z when all he wants to do is build his own creations.

Mutt · 29/08/2011 14:19

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pramsgalore · 29/08/2011 14:20

you can in the lego stores £11 for large cup and you can choose, like pick n mix but with lego, there is one in bluewater, look on the lego website for stores, i also think argos do buckets as well

RedHotPokers · 29/08/2011 14:22

I know where you're coming from OP, but we are a lego-loving family.

DD (just 5) plays with it for HOURS, Many a lie-in has been possible as a result, so I just can't slate it!

You are right in that there are too many little pieces these days though. Getting DD to tidy it all up is challenging at best, although I am a great fan of chucking it all into one box and bunging it under the bed. Great 'storage space:fun' ratio compared to lots of the other giant lumps of tat toys the DCs have.

treas · 29/08/2011 14:25

Ds loves lego has been constructing the specialist kits all by himself from just before 3 y.o.

We have lego dating back to the 70's that belongs to dh as well as the new kits that ds has saved up his money to buy himself.

Once he finishes building them ds make stop / go animated films which he then puts on Youtube.

So from my point of view lego is fantastic especially as dd is now taking an interest also.

Catslikehats · 29/08/2011 14:30

Only the most odd child would keep their lego in seperate kit boxes surely?

DS's are in one huge box. The other day we tipped it all out and started making the stuff, DH and I were up long after DS had retired to bed. It's fab Grin

iscream · 29/08/2011 14:32

My DS1 takes his collection of Lego instruction booklets to bed to read!

My ds1 also used to do that.

moonmother · 29/08/2011 14:35

My Brother, now 30 was a HUGE lego fan when he was my Ds's(7) age. My Mum and Dad used to buy any second hand lego they could find and he amassed quite a large amount of it. He also loved the original lego space series and used to buy it with his pocket money.

I have fond memories of myself and my brother playing for hours with all the lego when we were younger on a cold autumn/winter weekend.

Once my Ds got to lego age it all came down out of my Mum's loft and he now has it, and spends hours building with it.

He loves the Star Wars lego kits and we have bought quite a few for him for birthdays and Xmas'es, but he builds them into other bits as well as helping me put them back into their 'proper' use again.

If you do happen to lose any of the odd shaped bits you can order them from the lego website, also this website is great as they scan lots of instructions for different kits in, new and very old. My Brother got a fire station for his birthday one year, and we managed to download the instructions and rebuild it Grin

www.peeron.com/cgi-bin/invcgis/scans/6822-1/1?ct=1

mamadivazback · 29/08/2011 14:39

YANBU about the stupid kits but the Lego itself is fab!

I must admit though I am sick of buying the big tubs that say X amount of ieces when atleast 1/3 of them are miniscule circles Confused

vividgingerchilli · 29/08/2011 14:42

We have had the lego kits, DS lovs making the model but then the pieces go in the lego box and designs his own planes/cars/spaceships etc etc.

Takver · 29/08/2011 14:47

Those of you whose dc's like to read lego instructions, they might like this book if they also have lego technic (you can download it for free & then pay if you like it).

DD has quite a bit of lego technic (the wonders of ebay Grin ) but its harder to make the most of without a few starter ideas, I think.

weejimmykrankie · 29/08/2011 15:51

Lego is still the same, but it depends on the child. I got a Lego house once, got bored making it half way through and my Dad had to finish it off for me. I could never ever think of anything of my own to make, I wasn't comfortable without rules to follow. I preferred books.

My little brother on the other hand could do the kit on a lego technics complete with hydraulics in about 10 minutes flat and then would create endless inventions of his own.

I'm a lawyer, he's an engineer. I do quite like making Ikea furniture though Smile

weejimmykrankie · 29/08/2011 15:53

Oh, when I saw " I got a lego helicopter with petrol" my initial thought was that lego were now making things with actual petrol engines in them these days....!

alistron1 · 29/08/2011 17:09

DS2 has spent the whole summer hols playing with our 'generic' lego bits - as I did when I was a kid. I hate the kits, there is something very soulless and uncreative about them.

5Foot5 · 29/08/2011 17:15

YABU and I disagree with the opinion that the kits are just a one-make thing.

DD (who is now 15 so doesn't lego anymore) used to have a largish basic set. Then one Christmas she was bought the Hogwarts Castle kit and 2 or 3 other smaller HP-themed kits.

The Hogwarts castle was too complicated for her to do herself at first so we spent ages putting it together. For a while after that she tried to keep it in one piece and every time a bit got knocked off it had to be rebuilt and she hardly ever actually played with it. However, eventually it came properly to bits but by then she had started to use her imagination and put it back together in different ways that suited her.

In the end she must have had hours and hours and hours of fun with it by using it to build her own scenes to act out stories. These scenes usually would incorporate not only Lego but also bits from Playmobil, Polly Pocket, Sylvanian families, dolls house things or anything else. So of course sometimes we had a hell of a plastic jumble to sort out when they were all mixed in together but I genuinely think she was having her imagination stimulated by playing with it in her own way rather than trying to keep it just like the picture on the box.

FrumpyPumpy · 29/08/2011 18:09

We have boxes and boxes of the kits in the loft, all DH's but waiting for DS to be big enough for DH to get away with playing with it.

MissBetsyTrotwood · 29/08/2011 18:12

YABU. It's awesome. I still enjoy it - we found DH's Lego from 1980 something at MIL's and it still all works. Love it.

I think there's something to be said for coming through the Lego portal and arriving at the acceptance that the models will break and you will lose bits. Like Playmobil.

TalkinPeace2 · 29/08/2011 18:14

LEGO is wonderful
ignore ANYTHING with a film brand on it
go for Lego City or Creator
then when the kit has been made, encourage your DCs to rummage in the general box and add more to it
DS made a whole airport with about ten planes and two control towers
DD made the terminal with the shops and hotels
DH and I made the train track and passed crisps around by train

pamplemousserose · 29/08/2011 18:20

Yabu. Lego is the best!

moosemama · 29/08/2011 18:47

With ds2 (7), smaller kits and general lego pieces all go in one huge basket and he uses them to make all manner of weird and wonderful creations. He likes getting smaller kits he can make then dismantle, as its a way of getting hold of more interesting pieces to use in his own designs. He also has an impressive collection of minifigures that he likes to mix and match, often to comic effect. Grin

Ds1 (9) doesn't create unique things, because he has AS and struggles with the imagination involved. He does love his kits though and is very methodical about putting them together. His smaller kits are kept in tupperware along with the instructions so he can build them again if he wants to.

Both boys have some kits that they are very proud of (mainly because they were particularly complicated to build) and those go on their Lego shelves, they each have a shelf above their bed especially for this. Ds2 also puts some of his better self-designed creations up there from time-to-time, generally until he needs to cannibalise them to use the parts in one of his newest designs. Grin

All three of my dcs (dd is 2) play with our megabloks on a regular basis. They like to build giant towers or dens with them - having said that, we do have a ridiculous amount megablok bricks, which makes it a bit easier to build constructions of impressive scale.

I think it depends on the individual child as to what they are going to get out of lego. Obviously my boys use it in very different ways, but they are both huge lego fans and get a lot out of using it. Ds1 likes to store his carefully and re-use them, ds2 likes to mix it up and do his own thing. They share a bedroom and yes - this has caused plenty of fights between them in the past, but now they're old enough to respect each other's property a little better they both just get on with doing their own thing and playing with their own lego.