Last weekend i went away for a family get together with all of my extended family (17 of us)
I suffer from Claustrophobia (passed on from my DM who in the last five years has become to love lifts 
) and lifts scare the hell out of me to the extent that i actually get light headed . Now my dh and family have always urged me to try overcome my fear of lifts , so on this weekend i decided to give the lift a go(not wanting to pass my fears onto my dc) . 11 of us got inside - 8 adults and 3 children, then the lift stopped on the 2nd floor to let more people in , i had already noticed the sign that said "no more than 12 people" so i gently pointed this out when the doors opened . A man held the doors open while he counted all of us in the lift , he stood there for 3 minutes waiting on his wife and child to catch up (panic rising up inside me) and argued that he & his wife and daughter would be fine getting into the lift - i pointed out that this would mean that there was two people too many in the lift and he ignored me and entered with his family , I got out of the lift with dd & ds and walked down the stairs as i could hear a "grinding noise " under the lift .
WIBU to storm out ? or was this man just rude to hold the lift up and then insist on getting inside with his family knowing it was overloading the lift .