After agreeing to babysit my mum is going to see my sister instead. not sure if the excuse of double booking is genuine or that it's because my sis has just announced pregnancy, really think it's the latter. I had really difficult pregnancy, birth and aftermath and have really struggled to keep it all together, however I suspect this will form the picture for the next nine months and beyond. I'm used to it but am really irritated on behalf of DS and can't seem to just let it go - someone tell me to grow-up!