To be annoyed at SIL saying my DC are spoilt?

[Suzihaha]

During dinner she started to compare DS1 to her friends' DC, who apparently are all angels, sit through 2 hours at the table to wait for the adults to finish their meal, never shout or run around and never have to be told off.

It seems that what I thought was normal boyish behaviour for a 3.5 year old is, according to her, evidence that DH and I are not strict enough and that we are spoiling him.

She has a DC of her own who is much younger.

[Deuce]

Ffs Mumbling, stop making it all about your hang ups.

[MumblingRagDoll]

Oh piss off Deuce and the rest of you ignoring the fact that most of this gendered behaviour is LEARNED from parents who EXPECT it. You smug lot of twats.

[worraliberty]

See now calling us twats is sexist

Why can't we be a smug lot of dicks???


sighs and glares at Whatme for starting it

[MumblingRagDoll]

All right then! You lot of non gender specific genitalia!

I'll get me coat. I'm a bit offish tonight.

[Deuce]

Wow, your Mother must be so proud of you using language like that.

Or should I say Father?

Or perhaps you object to me mentioning gender at all......

[worraliberty]

All right then! You lot of non gender specific genitalia!

That's more like it!

[MumblingRagDoll]

Keep up Deuce Worra lightened the mood...I joined in and now you're putting a downer on it with your slow typing. Twat and cock to you. Anyway...you said FFS which means For Fucks Sake....or are acronyms acceptable?

[MumblingRagDoll]

Anyway....

[runs back out with coat]

[Deuce]

She probably has PMT and is pissed off having to be ruled by her female hormones.

[Whatmeworry]

ignoring the fact that most of this gendered behaviour is LEARNED from parents who EXPECT it

D'you have kids of both sexes MumblingRagDoll?

[TakeMeDrunkImHome]

Just ignore nasty comments. Unless they are running across the table and throwing chicken legs/caviar/quail eggs then I think you are good.

[Deuce]

I am on a phone sorry darling

Nowt like a twat and cock though!

And yes, they were years ago here, and they are still. You angry bird!

[MumblingRagDoll]

[sticks head back in]

COOOOOCKS! TWATS! FANNIES!

[worraliberty]

Twat and cock to you

I think I love you! Though I may need to send you my dry cleaning bill

[Signet2012]

This is why I love MN. Spoilt kids..... gender generalisations....... cocks fanny twat.
So many threads I read the first post, think "I have an opinion on this" by time Ive read rest of post there is cock, twat fuck and the odd C*nt.

No idea whats going on

love it

[Deuce]

Who are you calling an odd cunt????

[AnnieLobeseder]

arse!

there's some non-gender-specific genitalia for you!

[Pamplemoussse]

not keen on Hitler refs

but the rest of the thread's tres amusant

[worraliberty]

signet and people were wondering why GPs and MWs don't suggest MN to all new Mums

[tethersend]

I think invoking Godwin's law on the first post has to be a record, no?

[Pamplemoussse]

aye tethers

[Whatmeworry]

Hitler is passe after the youtube sketches - actually, its more amusing seeing when the first person talsk about Godwin's Law these days :o

[AnnieLobeseder]

Fabby - at no point did the OP say her SIL was suggesting that children should be made to invade most of Europe and commit genocide. How is Hitler relevant?

Remind me of Godwin's law again please tethers - it's too late at night for Google.

[Whatmeworry]

(Imagining a Hitler sketch about naughty kids....)

[Signet2012]

Im not even pregnant yet and I dare say I will live my life by this forum. I will refuse to be proven wrong until Ive been flamed in the AIBU. I will discuss my EWCM. I will not flounce, or mark my spot on threads, call anyone Hun, love, or sweetie, I wont (((hug)) I will say cock, twat, fannies and the occasional C*nt and join in the odd bun fight and be safe in the knowledge that its always going to be his fault. Somehow.

:)