H's friend is in the army. He's single so when he's off at weekends or home on leave he stays with us which is fine. He's a good friend to us both. I've known him for 15 years and we go out together even when h is working.
Anyway. He is a bit of a ladies man and prides himself on the ability to convince pretty much anyone into bed with him.
This has caused problems in the past with some of my friends who have felt uncomfortable. The majority however did end up sleeping with him and then badgering me when he doesn't call them.
At the weekend I bought a new colleague home. We've worked together for a few months and got on well. We have a big project to work on next year so will be very close.
I asked him as a friend to lay off her and to keep his hands to himself. He jokingly said he wouldn't but I really thought he would. The colleague was staying over. I pre warned her about him!
Anyway the next morning I poked my head into the spare room to offer h's friend a coffee and the pair of them leapt up in the bed like they'd been shot clearly up to no good. I popped out to get sausages as I promised to cook a fry up for everyone and by the time I got back she'd jumped in a taxi and gone even though she'd planned to stay.
I am really upset with h's friend for compromising another friendship of mine. He can't see the problem. H says i'm over reacting and they are both adults. Maybe I am being unreasonable?