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Raging over something trivial...

35 replies

tethersend · 19/08/2011 13:52

In the park with 2.8yo DD who is learning how to ride her bike; she's doing really well, but fell off and got back on with much encouragement. As we neared one of the gates (which doesn't leave the park), I held on to the back of her bike so she wouldn't race off into the path of an oncoming pedestrian.

I hear a loud "TUT" from behind me, as a cyclist weaves around and overtakes us at speed through the gate. I probably should have ignored it, but I was incensed and shouted at him not to tut me. I may or may not have called him an arrogant cock. He shouted at me to "walk straight then"; I shouted that we have right of way (and he could clearly see that a toddler was deciding our path), cue much flicking of fingers (both of us) and turning the air blue (me).

Thing is, he just kept going and cycled off into the distance whilst I was left with a perplexed toddler and stares from passers by.

I am still incandescent with rage, and DD's proclamations of "Mummy shouted at the man" every 5 minutes are not helping.

AIBU to ask you to talk me down and tell me I'm being ridiculous?

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SuePurblybilt · 19/08/2011 15:53

I am still impressed, DD is too idle to pedal Grin. And can fall over standing still.
If you find a way to stop being angry, let me know. I am still fuming over a minor road rage incident about 2 months ago....

tethersend · 19/08/2011 15:54

Gin. Gin is the way to stop being angry.

Well, it displaces the anger anyway.

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PinotsKittens · 19/08/2011 15:55

I can fall over standing still Hmm

YouDoTheMath · 19/08/2011 15:57

Next time grin sweetly and say "sorry".

It'll make him look a twat for getting narky in the first place.

My town is renowned for excessive cyclists - and even when they career into you on the pavement, they are never in the wrong.

SuePurblybilt · 19/08/2011 15:58

Gin, gin, lovely gin. But then I'm just pissed and angry Grin

Pinot, do mind the kittens if you topple, ducky.

ComeWhineWithMe · 19/08/2011 16:02

A jogger once screeched in son's face as he was just toddling along minding his own buisness,she had been running and ran straight into his path but because he was 3 he just stood there and instead of going round him she sort of went "arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrRRR" in his face.
I did shout after her but she ignored me. I still rage inwardly when I think about the silly cow 10 years later.
So YANBU.

tethersend · 19/08/2011 16:03

Yes, but now I've had gin, I'm just angry at something DP probably said to me some time last year. Can't remember what, though.

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SuePurblybilt · 19/08/2011 16:05

It's you and me for the Rage Gin then ComeWhine. We must drink to forget.
Here's death to the past

worraliberty · 19/08/2011 16:06

Really? All that over a 'tut'?

Don't sweat the small stuff or you'll end up in an early grave!

ComeWhineWithMe · 19/08/2011 16:09

Cheers, hic, gin makes me cry though I'll have two glasses and be wondering if evil jogger ever feels guilty for screaming in a toddlers face or got the twisted ankle I have often wished on her.

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