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To be seriously worried that the cost of food is getting so scarily high

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thebird · 18/08/2011 18:48

I am not extravagant I buy shop own brands where I can, I try to shop on a budget, I cook from scratch and have given up buying extras like wine (well just the odd bottle to keep me sane) but still each week the cost of my food bill goes up and up. I know inflation is running at around 4-5% but I cant understand this as many basic items have increased almost 30-50%. When the hell is it going to stop or I really will be living on beans on toast every night(and even they've gone up lots!

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WorzselMummage · 21/08/2011 16:52

Me too if you wouldn't mind

Snuppeline · 21/08/2011 17:00

Oh may I please be sent the ££30 meal plan?, I'd really appreciate it.

My tips in return for it are here:
Cleaning saving tips:
Use own brand (cheapest) coke where I would normally use bleach (so a glugg in the toilet, a glugg in the sink). It very highly acidic so does the same job. A 2 liter bottle of the cheapest ownbrand stuff is very cost effective if you don't use all of it in the loo. Leave over night if possible.

I also reuse old tooth brushes to get to creases in tiles, use a tiny bit of bleach for this - saves you having to redo the filling between tiles and makes a bathroom look like new. Works wonders on the drains in the sink, around the metal parts of the toilet seat, that sort of thing.

Someone mentioned clothes coming out of washing machine smelling bad, I've had this too. Its a sign some bacteria has developed and you need a very hot wash to sort it out. So take your sheets, towels or similar hot-wash type landry and chuck it in on 90degrees. Only need to do it once in a blue moon and you don't have to get the special washing machine cleaners either.

Food saving tips:
I find that near-off veg can be cut up and frozen for use at a later time if you don't have time to make something to freeze right there and then.

Someone mentioned loving fish pie. My advice is to use frozen fish for a fish pie as its cheaper (though still not entierly cheap) and you can't tell the difference so well. Use a tiny bit of smoked haddock to get more flavor though I'm stingy with it. Use veg to bulk it out. I've also stopped using a cheese sause as its too expensive (and not good for me!). Jamie Oliver has a great recepie in Ministry of Food for a fish pie without sause, its absolutely delish! (He suggests using shrimps in it too but I ignore that).

I also buy big chunks of cheese when they're on offer, grate them and freeze. That way I can grab a handfull of frozen cheese to add to sauses or top pies with without risking the cheese going off.

I've noticed that passata can now be bought in relatively small one-portion sizes but they're really expensive so what I do is buy one own-brand one for 27p and then pour it into ice cube tray and freeze. Once frozen I tip them into a freezer bag and then take out one or two cubes when I make a quick pasta sause for dd. I also make big batches of food and freeze obviously. Bake things and make jam or whatever when I can.

When I was growing up we had two or three things for sandwhich fillings, such as cheese/ham/jam though never cheeese and ham in the fridge at the same time. We would also have cheap spreadable cheese as a staple in the fridge and things like tinned sardines/mackrel in the cupboard. I've just become so used to fresh and a broad choice that I've forgotten that its quite possible to live without breasola and parma ham... Must do that in our household now too.

Tried growing some own veg this year but only my herbs seem to have worked. One day I will have a proper kitchen garden and some chickens

Dp and I are on a diet now so we don't eat much at all, just very basic and small portions, found it has really helped our food budget as well as our waist lines too so that's a big bonus. We cook from scratch, never go out and never have a takeaway but apart from eating less we can't think of anything else to do.

Thanks for all the tips guys!

MrsBaggins · 21/08/2011 17:03

snuppeline very true about the sandwich fillings .We would have fish paste or Heinz sandwich spread we called them sick sandwiches Grin

maxybrown · 21/08/2011 17:06

we always had banana sandwhiches as my dad got frree fruit and veg through his job when we were kids!

MrsBaggins · 21/08/2011 17:06

Another thing that is very worrying is the price of gas and electricity.
We have electric blankets on all the beds and turn the heating off at night and in the evening light the fire.
The blankets only cost 3p per night to run and its lovely getting into a toasty bed .

Snuppeline · 21/08/2011 17:15

We called ours "plane crashes" as it all looked like mush and death... We also had banana and apple sandwhiches. I loved banana ones and still have them with a glass of milk!

On one level I am sad that we have had to tighten our belts and make changes which hark us back to our 60s/70s/80s childhoods (for dp and I) but on a different level I'm glad to be thinking about what I buy too. I had gotten too materialistic.

As an example, when I was expecting dd it was just before the recession hit and I was looking at ridic clothes and furniture for her (£800 for a cotbed - that sort of madness!) and though I had savings and a good job I had nowhere near a salary to justify that sort of spending. Luckily I held off (must have been my frugal mothers influence!) and with the recession hitting my priorities changed dramatically, I accepted second hand clothes and second hand furniture. In fact, rather than buy furniture for dd she slept the first 4 months of her life in her pram. She doesn't appear harmed by it and it fitted so neatly next to my side of the bed... Smile

Anyway, I am not happy that we are now poor but I am happy I haven't had a chance to turn into the silly overspending person it looked like I would turn into!

Snuppeline · 21/08/2011 17:16

Thank you BitterAndTwistedChoreDodger really appreciate it! Looking through it now and I must say I'm so impressed, there's load on the list! Thank you Smile

MrsBaggins · 21/08/2011 17:26

Snuppeline had completely forgotten banana sandwiches mmmm.
I grew up in the 70s and we just ate whatever my dad grew on his allotment .
I do think we are very subject to advertising in this country.I dont really notice it that much when on hols in France and Germany.

Snuppeline · 21/08/2011 17:36

Less advertising in France I can believe. I remember a poster who lives in France said that they could only get whatever was in season in the supermarkets, so whatever a particular region had harvested that's what you could choose from. Surely better than green beans being flown in from Kenya!

drcrab · 21/08/2011 19:07

I've really 'enjoyed' reading this thread - we're in a similar position: DH just been made redundant, we have 2 kids (3.5 and 11 months) and well... it's going to be tight. He's also started up his own business so no jobseekers!

I was just reading some of the threads out to DH and he asked whether MN will be forwarding this thread (or any of the stuff around this issue of ridiculously increased food/gas/electric prices) to the politicians or to DC direct?

Yes, it may seem to be a few mums complaining on a public forum, but it must be more than that? I imagine we must come from a whole cross-section of society (classes, education levels, types of jobs, number of kids, regions of the country) and yet we are all feeling the pinch. People who used to shop at Sainsbury's and Waitrose are saying that they are starting to shop at the cheaper supermarkets; and those who already shop at cheaper supermarkets are saying they are buying more ownbrand/value brand.

We were in town this afternoon and we'd brought our own picnic so as to save on having lunch in a cafe/restaurant... food outlets must be suffering too as a result? Thankfully the weather was good and we could sit in the sunshine; if it'd started to rain, we would have gone home and ate our 'picnic' there!

sorry this was so long - I'm just feeling v panicky atm. :(

Machin11 · 21/08/2011 19:28

Hi All

Can someone PM me the £30 meal plan as well please?

I'm the same as most on here, I used to do a reasonable shop for 2.5 of ius (stepson here half the week) for around £35, but now I can't get out of the shops without spending £70 minimum.

One thing I have done for years is use one wash tablet with clothes instead of two, and never ever three, and this has always cleaned stepsons very muddy footy kit fine, I always ignore the "must use two" direction on the back of the packet, I also buy them in bulk, so I should now have enough left to last me through to January!! My theory has always been if it comes out dirty I can rewash, however in the three years of doing this I have never ever had too!

Eggs, Someone nearby has free range ones, so now buy six large eggs for a pound, not helpful if none of your neighbours have chickens! (or buy some chickens yourself, free eggs then lol).

I'm trying to do less takeaways, and have resorted to a beans on toast night at least once a week!

I also buy my shampoo/cleaning products either when on special offer, or head to Wilkinson/B&M bargains and get them there!

I thought I was the only one who found it a challenge recently. Also if food isn't up to scratch as you totally expect, make sure you complain!! I had some Aunt Bessies yorkies (which I love) but two had leaked in the foils and I couldn't use them, so out of a box of 12 yorkies, two had to be thrown away, I paid £1 for them on offer, I rang AB and they sent me 4 x £1 off their products!!

I will keep nosying for the tips, they're really useful!

Cheers

budgetmummy · 21/08/2011 19:36

Pleasecouldsomeonekindlypmmethe£30mealplan,.
isssobadICantevenaffordtogetmykeyboardfixedlol.

thanks

SnoozleDoozle · 21/08/2011 19:52

A few people have mentioned the cost of cleaning products.

I used to buy all sorts of cleaning products, and now I have cut right back. I buy Stardrops which cleans everything you can think of - kitchen worktops, bathroom, interior of car, even handwashing clothes. Its very mild, kind to skin, cleans really well and doesn't have that sinister chemical smell that you get with most cleaners.

For heavy duty oven cleaning, I buy the cheapest own brand bio washing powder in my local spar, mix some with water to make a paste and spread it over the bottom of the oven. I take the removable parts of the oven and soak them in hot water mixed with the same bio powder. The biological agents just dissolve the muck and grease, and it costs about a tenth of the fancy oven cleaner from Lakeland etc, and does just as good a job without removing your skin or stinking your house out.

The only other things I really buy and use are bleach and soda crystals. MIL drives me mad, as she keeps buying me Dettox anti bacterical cleaner etc, as she seems to think that my house can't be clean without that chemical smell, but ironically DH and I are both clean freaks anyway.

SnoozleDoozle · 21/08/2011 19:53

Meant to say, my bottle of Stardrops costs less than £1 and lasts for about 2 years, as you only need a few drops in water to work up plenty of foam and clean half the house!

deemented · 21/08/2011 20:03

Have PM'd everyone from Waedgirl down.

TheLimeFairy · 21/08/2011 20:07

Thank you for the meal planner! Grin. I am compiling my shopping list in just a minute with its help and I am then going to do battle with Tesco in the morning. It feels good to have the challenge (although I have 6 mouths to feed so may be slightly more because of quantity).

If this thread (or another similar) is running, I will let you know how I got on with it.

dementedma · 21/08/2011 20:13

i agree with Snoozle about Stardrops. It's dead cheap and lasts for ever.

carminagoesprimal · 21/08/2011 20:14

Thank you - have rec'd my £30 pw meal planner. - really excited Grin

TheLimeFairy · 21/08/2011 20:21

Just read back the thread from where I left it this morning.

I did ring the TV licensing people before we stopped the license to make sure the broadband was ok and they said fine but you can't watch live TV such as news. We didn't watch much before so we haven't missed anything.

So it is a way to save on monthly bills but obviously not for everyone. Smile

dementedma · 21/08/2011 20:28

Aldi washing up liquid - called magnum - is £1 for an enormous bottle, and it's really good.

Jools0812 · 21/08/2011 20:32

Please could I be sent the meal plan please..Our costs have risen and risen.
Growing our own veg (and have done for past 3 years) which has really helped so don't tend to buy much veg. Have some major health issues so can't give the patch as much attention as I would like.
Always get shopping delivered as can't walk far. I find it costs less online as I am not 'tempted'!
The times that I have sent OH to the shops with a list he has come back with half the items missing!
Jools x

deemented · 21/08/2011 20:34

Sent

mumtomoley · 21/08/2011 20:42

can I have the £30 meal plan too please!

I remember when I was about 20 and lived on my own I used to do my monthly shopping for £25.00!!! This was only 10 years go and admittedly it was somewhat lacking in anything that had at any point been alive but I'm not sure it would even be possible now.

As I'm on maternity pay at the moment we've just been looking at our finances and it's not pretty. I've done our meal plan for the month and reckon it comes to 90 quid but doesn't include any household items and doesn't include DH's sandwiches for the week or wine.

Asda is definitely significantly cheaper than other supermarkets so worth the drive accross town. They have 2 chickens for £7 at the moment. Also using chicken thighs etc instead of breast reduces the bill significantly.

Making my own washing gel sounds wonderful! Can i make it non-bio? I'm afraid I don't really get what non bio is but apparently its all DP can have.

Was looking at the asian foods website and will definitely get a big bag of tilda basmati they have on offer - bargain!

dementedma · 21/08/2011 20:48

some good things in the £30 meal plan but can't see that it would provide breakfasts, lunches, dinners etc for five for a week. i'm willing to try, but not entirely convinced it's possible. Will give it a go and report back Smile

toptramp · 21/08/2011 20:54

I am scared by the thought that coke does the same job as bleach as it is so acidic!!!! If it will clean the loo what will it do to your insides?I hate the vile stuff (coke that is). If I want a fizzy drink I get tesco value fizzy water at 17p. I normally drink it plain but can be mixed with juice to make a tasty and healthier drink. I have discovered tescos own brand veggie mince. I am a meat eater but this mince makes a tasty and very convincing chilli or bolognaise sause with no shite quality meat needed.

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