in thinking there is nothing wrong with my DD (2) re. potty training?

[LifeIsButtercream]

DD is 2yrs 4months, one or two of her peers are potty trained, and when people ask whether she is trained/training yet I have to say no.

She isn't ready yet, in my mind, she is unaware of when she is wee-ing, and I am happy to let her enjoy being a toddler and not worrying about all that yet - the few occasions I've managed to get her to be nappy-off (in the garden or just playing) she hasn't liked it, not wanted to sit on her potty, and asked for a nappy back on.

When I tell people that she's not training yet, they always ask "oh, is there something wrong in 'that department'", or look concerned. I've even had a relative (who hadn't seen her for a while) have a not-so-subtle check to see whether she had a nappy on, then ask me why she wasn't trained.

AIBU in thinking there isn't anything wrong with not being potty trained yet, just cos she happens to be 2 now?

Both my boys were 3 when I potty trained them, both were trained within a week dry day and night no accidents. Dont listen to others there nothing wrong with her

YANBU. DD is almost 3 and being very stubborn about it. Even nursery can't get her to use the little toilets. I think I'm going to wait until next March to do her.

Her big brother didn't crack it until 3.4, although he was poo-ing on the potty for months before we managed to get the wee's on the potty. But he was dry overnight within a week so I obviously didn't make a total hash of it.