very soon. She is 94. She has had a fall tonight which left her unconscious and my grandad with sever lacerations to his hand - he tried to help her, knoocked a glass off the side and fell on it. Both hospitalised, Grandad likely coming home tomorrow, Granny maybe never again - she is very frail and has a head injury which seems to have left her very confused - she thinks my mum is HER mum and keeps asking after "little CRS - are you still breastfeeding, L?" . I am 34. AIBU to want this former respected doctor who has been blind for a year, and cannot leave her bed without accident (although she keeps trying), who is doubly incontinent but will only let my mum clean her up. to die now with dignity?