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to think all teenage girls should be given a financial incentive to use LARC

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twentypoundsover · 14/08/2011 21:39

as the cost to the taxpayer of say £500 for every year they didn't get pregnant would be dwarfed by the social and economic cost for paying for the consequences of teenage pregnancy.

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twentypoundsover · 14/08/2011 21:40

thats long-acting reversible contraception btw in case it's not obvious.

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coccyx · 14/08/2011 21:41

no make it less attractive to have a baby

hairylights · 14/08/2011 21:42

Yabu. What about the responsibility of teenage boys in teenage pregnancy?

And iuis can cause some women real problems.

squeakytoy · 14/08/2011 21:43

bad idea, which would just bring about a return to back street abortions :(

TrillianAstra · 14/08/2011 21:43

At what point does the payment stop? When is the government-approved age to have a baby? 18? 19? 20?

squeakytoy · 14/08/2011 21:45

also, the vast majority of teenage girls do NOT get pregnant, so I think it would be no saving at all for government resouces.

deemented · 14/08/2011 21:45

This is a bad idea on so many levels.

Once again, the onus is on the girl - but what about the boys, the teenage lads who get them pregnant? Or are they simply 'studs' whilst the girls are nowt but 'slappers'?

Next you'll be reintroducing the Magdelene laundries...

twentypoundsover · 14/08/2011 21:45

huh? why would it result in more abortions? nothing about banning abortions, just paying teenagers to be given long-lasting contraception.

And about when the payment stops - do the research and look at the stats on age of mother at birth versus social outcomes to calculate it.

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GypsyMoth · 14/08/2011 21:46

Lol never heard such rubbish! They already get paid to stay on at school/college

MirandaGoshawk · 14/08/2011 21:47

Er, there was a very long thread recently on this very topic. Every single person thought it was a bad idea.

2shoes · 14/08/2011 21:48

yabu
they can get condoms for free, the pill for free, you can't force them to use them

TrillianAstra · 14/08/2011 21:50

If a girl would get an abortion in return for £500 (but without the financial incentive would have the baby) then she's probably better off not having the child.

tralalala · 14/08/2011 21:51

better education, more sex education from a younger age, get parents better educated too at talking to their kids about sex. Much less likely to increase the amount of STDs about,

MrsTerryPratchett · 14/08/2011 21:56

Presumably STDs are free and teenage pregnancies are expensive OP?

Maybe we should be teaching girls that they are valuable without sex, that their bodies belong to them, what their sisters before them fought and died for, that they don't have to have a boyf to be cool, that the porn industry and Hollywood don't define them...

Bollocks, just dose them up and we can all sleep soundly in our beds.

TastyMuffins · 14/08/2011 21:57

Totally unreasonable, those forms of contraception can be dangerous for still developing young girls and can take years to wear off. What about those who are not even sexually active? Would they be encouraged to us LARC methods to get the money and put their bodies at risk using something that has no benefit?

NevermindtheNargles · 14/08/2011 22:04

I'm all for it only if I can have mine backdated. I had ds at 29, I I'm owed a few grand.

Otherwise it's a terrible plan.

NevermindtheNargles · 14/08/2011 22:04

I'm all for it only if I can have mine backdated. I had ds at 29, I I'm owed a few grand.

Otherwise it's a terrible plan.

LordOfTheFlies · 14/08/2011 22:05

There are no answers are there?
I was a teenager (late teen) when HIV/AIDS was first in the news.
Fast forward several years ( about 26 years to be exact) and I still see young girls, usually in pairs for 'moral support' giggling and asking for the MAP.

What about the night -before condom. It's not a fecking joke ,girlsAngry

evenlessnarkypuffin · 14/08/2011 22:07

Yes lets pump girls full of artificial hormones, shooting up the STI rate including that of chlamydia which untreated can cause infertility.

meditrina · 14/08/2011 22:09

YABU - not all teenagers are sexually active, and not all are irresponsible about contraception. Non-barrier methods do nothing to prevent STIs either. I think it is ethically and morally dubious to endorse the taking of hormones with cold hard cash.

And although I would agree that pregnancy will always be an issue which inherently bears down more on the female (as the one actually having the baby), I think this would send the wrong messages to young men about their responsibilities in this.

Perhaps we should be looking more at why girls and young women, boys and young men who choose to defer starting a pregnancy make that choice, and find ways to foster those attitudes more widely.

timidviper · 14/08/2011 22:10

There is too much social engineering using rewards IMO. For balance in life we need to balance rights and responsibilities and need to use a combination of "carrots and sticks"

I think a lot of current social problems are down to the attitude engendered in some people by this constant rewarding them for reasonable behaviour leading to an attitude of entitlement.

I think having such low expectations of people that we think only money will stop them from "accidentally" getting pregnant is unlikely to raise any standards for any of us

MirandaGoshawk · 14/08/2011 22:13

HERE is the other thread.

SlackSally · 14/08/2011 22:14

Not true any more ILoveTiffany.

EMA scrapped as of September. Bonuses scrapped ages ago.

TrompetteMilitaire · 14/08/2011 22:15

Good lord. Are there really people who believe that this would be a good idea?

babeinthewood · 14/08/2011 22:16

all contraceptives are free, what more incentive is there? changes are being made, but you dont want to warp back to a time where unmarried mothers were locked in looney bins to have their babies and then their babies snatched away from them. Equally if you take away financial support etc you just end up with even more young children C/O the state which costs even more money and more screwed up kids. IMO

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