To have told my dp he's inconsiderate

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In order that I don't waffle on too much, will just list conversation as I'm still growling about it.

Little background knowledge for you:

DP checks in with me earlier in the day, I ask him what time he will be back in the evening so I can prepare dinner. He says the ususal time, which is 8.30 to 9pm.

I'm still sitting there, dinner congealing at 10.45. He walks in and, here we go...

Me - "You're very late, dinner is ruined, why didn't you let me know you weren't coming home till now.
DP - "I told you I would probably work longer"
Me - "No you didn't"
DP - "We must have got our wires crossed then"
Me - "No "we" didn't get our wires crossed as you told me you'd be home as normal.

I'm expecting an apology now...

DP - "Well you could have just left dinner out for me and gone to bed if you wanted"

Other muttering from him I can't understand

Me - "Why can't you just apologise for being inconsiderate?"
DP - "How dare you call me inconsiderate, I'm not at all inconsiderate"

I'm getting a bit mad now!

Me - "What would you call it then?"
DP - "Like I said WE just got our wires crossed"

Things start to get a bit shouty/messy now so won't go on.

He's a damn swerver isn't he? Isn't he?

Exactly Jooly. If DH goes to an away footie match and can't guarantee when he'll get back, I make something that can be re-heated when he returns. I eat mine when I want! At least I know where he is and he is good at phoning if they have extra time or there's traffic problems.

Pinkthechafich... Pissed in his bath, Left him some "lovingly" made mouldy sandwiches coz its MY house! hehe

Plus ladies, he doesnt live with me so knows I make a special effort if im cooking!

"Chaotic-I wouldn't know if it's inconsiderate or not as I've cooked for my OH 3 times in all the years I've been with him.He cooks everynight.So I probably would be annoyed at him for coming home late as I'd be very hungry"

Does he have a brother?

you seem overly confrontational. I'm on his side.