To have told my dp he's inconsiderate

[boudiccasSideKick]

In order that I don't waffle on too much, will just list conversation as I'm still growling about it.

Little background knowledge for you:


DP checks in with me earlier in the day, I ask him what time he will be back in the evening so I can prepare dinner. He says the ususal time, which is 8.30 to 9pm.

I'm still sitting there, dinner congealing at 10.45. He walks in and, here we go...

Me - "You're very late, dinner is ruined, why didn't you let me know you weren't coming home till now.
DP - "I told you I would probably work longer"
Me - "No you didn't"
DP - "We must have got our wires crossed then"
Me - "No "we" didn't get our wires crossed as you told me you'd be home as normal.

I'm expecting an apology now...

DP - "Well you could have just left dinner out for me and gone to bed if you wanted"

Other muttering from him I can't understand

Me - "Why can't you just apologise for being inconsiderate?"
DP - "How dare you call me inconsiderate, I'm not at all inconsiderate"

I'm getting a bit mad now!

Me - "What would you call it then?"
DP - "Like I said WE just got our wires crossed"

Things start to get a bit shouty/messy now so won't go on.

He's a damn swerver isn't he? Isn't he?

[girlywhirly]

Exactly Jooly. If DH goes to an away footie match and can't guarantee when he'll get back, I make something that can be re-heated when he returns. I eat mine when I want! At least I know where he is and he is good at phoning if they have extra time or there's traffic problems.

[boudiccasSideKick]

Pinkthechafich... Pissed in his bath, Left him some "lovingly" made mouldy sandwiches coz its MY house! hehe

[boudiccasSideKick]

Plus ladies, he doesnt live with me so knows I make a special effort if im cooking!

[ChaoticAngeltheInnocentOne]

"Chaotic-I wouldn't know if it's inconsiderate or not as I've cooked for my OH 3 times in all the years I've been with him.He cooks everynight.So I probably would be annoyed at him for coming home late as I'd be very hungry"

Does he have a brother?

[pinkthechaffinch]

[mayorquimby]

you seem overly confrontational. I'm on his side.