Aibu in thinking you prob shouldn't tell them? I have no idea whether I do look like her, and have certainly never been told so before. But we were at our first party last night since dd born, and just as dinner was starting, a very lively jumpy lady who was sitting at our table and had been chatting to me in her seat jumped up and whispered to me that I looked like tracy emin. She said "coming from me, that's a compliment". I don't really feel like it was though. She said it right after she found out I was married to dh, I think she had been set up with him in the past and he was not interested. Also apparently she has bipolar, which explains her manic behaviour otherwise all evening. But I felt like the comparison was meant to make me feel a bit bad - aibu?