advice needed

[cuteboots]

ok here goes!! My littlle boys dad came to see him last week and they were having a play fight that got out of control. He called my son stupid and when I pulled him up for calling him this lots of other stuff came out as well! then we proceeded to have a full scale row and he stomped out of the house! He hasnt called his son since Thursday when this happened so obviously me shouting at him now means we are in his bad books again!!! Do I need to grow a backbone and let him call his son and if he doesnt just leave it? Im now trying to deal with an unhappy little boy who doesnt understand why his dad isnt phoning him.

How can he ignore a two year old beggars belief. Some men don't deserve to call themselves Dad. He'll be calling F4J next telling them how hard done to he is.

worraliberty, he was telling everyone I wasnt letting him see her, fuckwit, things have improved now he has realised I wont dance to his tune all the time, he is a controling man.

cuteboots, I wouldnt get him to call him again, ball is firmly in his court now.

I would definatly not have contact in your house anymore if and when he does get intouch, That was half the problem for us. I would consider mediation it helped us alot.

thanks for the feedback ladies. I had a bit of a cry this afternoon as my little boy has now drawn a picture for when daddy comes back! I wont let this happen again and if he resurfaces we will set up an alternative arrangement. Hes also supposed to be giving me maintenance but I bet that stops again as well