DH has hurt his leg. Clearly he is in lots of pain and I feel for him. But IABU to be a nit pissed off with his entire attitude. Last night he growled at me that he would not be getting up with DS (10 weeks) in the night and I would "just have to do it". Then this morning, with me having had v little sleep as DS was refluxy so I had to hold him upright, at 6am, as it's time for his next feed DH stomps out of the bedroom saying, "I can't do anything with the baby today, you will just have to do it yourself".
Of course I will do it and cover for him when necessary but it really annoys me that he doesn't even realise I am affected too and that a simple Thank you would go a long way.
It also just shows that he sees ds as my responsibility and he just "helps" me si can withdraw that help whenever he wants.
I do most night time feeds and waking up as it is. I am on mat leaves have baby all day so I take on the bulk of the responsibility naturally but I still don't understand why he gets to decree he is not doing anything while I have to ask and apologise and negotiate when I need s break.