Quick back story: DP took DD (2) and DS (5 in Oct) to some friends yesterday evening on the way home from nursery. We've known them years, they're childless, and have recently started a vegetable patch in their garden. The woman of the couple was showing the kids all the new veg coming up, and they found a medium-size marrow, which she handed to DS to take home.
Anyway, he was cuddling this marrow all evening yesterday, and slept with it.....he woke me up at 7.00am this morning, still cuddling his marrow and saying "I love (name of marrow woman)......she gave me a marrow, and I ate a tomato, and she showed me some peas.......".
He took it out to play this morning, and I just about managed to dissuade him from taking it to nursery.
He's on his way home with DP and DD now.....and the marrow is about to be sliced in half, scooped out and filled with Bolognese sauce and topped with grated cheese, and placed in a hot oven for 30 minutes.
Quick...do I do this or not? Am I evil? Or unreasonable?