hairful I really didnt think you'd be offended-good god ive seen your posts 
but she didnt,
pumpkin can you please point out where i was rude to you.
I presume English is not you first language and therefore you may be grammatically perfect but will not have any true understanding of how it can be used when you have grown up using it from a baby,in real life people dont use perfect grammar eg, kids dont say "my friend and i" or i wouldn't say "may i have some nice ham"in the deli cos you would look ridiculous.
Also i must say i find it breathtakingly pompous for you to critisise a person for their English on a parenting forum cos its irelevant,if you know so much our language then you would also know we are a multi cultural society so therefore mulit lingual,many people will not have perfect grammar and diction,we do not go about picking people up on it as in our culture that would be rude.
The op may have been from another country and still learning English.
As for the use of the word "fucking" it does not have to be directed at somone to cause offence,it is a sexual term and not just used freely in conversation in case soemone finds it offensive,as someone who finds a wrong word "unpleasant" then im sure you understand.
I have asked you several questions which you have not answered as have others,will you be doing so,or just repeating your points over and over? Eg. Why were your posts so full of mistakes?Mistakes not typos.
I am sorry if i have caused you offence by my lack of punctuation and spelling mistakes but i have had 3 hours slepp and have a baby on one arm,but you know what? It doesnt matter,not one bit,cos i have my degree and my job and so the pressure's off,i can write how i like,cos this is just Mumsnet and only a few peopel care.
If your intention was to impress and belittle people then you have failed miserably and only served to make yourself look ridiculous and bored.
HTH.