after we announced we were engaged she told dh's neice that she would be being our bridesmaid, even tho were werent having bridesmaids, we planned a small wedding, no fuss,no reception, just getting married.
she sent out her own invitations to the wedding, to people we didnt invite instead of out homemade (keeping the price down) invitations
she insisted on a reception we couldnt afford so said she would pay for it... she ordered enough food for 30 people which is how many she invited, my side of the family and friends was 60 people, we didnt get any of it and had to go to the mcds drive through in my wedding dress
she complained that ds (7 months at the time) was wearing a pin striped suit, complained about the cake (my mums gift) that dh "wasnt allowed to drink at his own wedding" he chose not to, we have small children to look after still, complained about everything you can imagine, my grandad told her it wasnt her wedding and not to spoil it for us..
she told the dj she only wanted them for the evening, nothing for the afternoon(that came with the room) that we didnt have 'a song' even tho we did and the dj didnt have it for our dance
she didnt speak to me for the whole day.
aibu to be upset with her or should i have let it go? we got married in april, she takes over things like buying the gift we were buying for lo's birthdays, christmas etc..i usually just shrug it off but the wedding stuff still gets to me