ok.... Dd is 19 months and goes to nursery 2 afternoons and 1 full day a week so that along with workibg evenings etc i can try and do my 35 hours of work a week....
Dh was due to look after dd today 9:30 onwards and take dd to nursery at 1. Dh has been in a grump all weekend and worked yesterday 2-10pm but then went to the pub, he got home about 11:30 but stayed up until 2 (drinking the wine i had hidden in the study....)
Last night dd had sore bits after a runny poo at bedtime but i put metanium on it and she was asleep by 7, she woke at 11 and said she was sore so i changed her, put more cream on and gave some calpol, she went back to sleep and slept until about 6;30, i got her up and she was crying about being sore again so more cream and calpol...
Went downstairs and she was playing with ds(11), no major noise but dh came down started shouting about needing sleep, how his day wouldnt end until 10 tonight etc and how he hates his life and told ds to 'piss off to school' 
He then informed me he couldnt look after dd as she has sore bits and if i had any mothering instincts i wouldnt take dd to nursery either today! He then stormed off to bed so here i am, i should be at work, he's a twat and in bed and dd is ok until nappy time, aibu she will be fine to go to nursery???