If thats what you can call him, Ill call him D, He's a poor excuse for a man really and i want no more to do with him, Ill try and keep it short but these are some of the thing he has done lately.
a, been having a long battle with his ex over their 4 kids, he left a few years ago pays for the house, car, private education still aswell as paying for himself, he has a good job and isnt stupid but when it comes to her he just caves in and gives her what she wants, mean time my bf will go round and help pick up the pieces, the latest is this ex is now pregnant by someone else and he has now signed over the house to her new partner, without getting a penny for it.. i think hes pathetic for doing this after everything she has put him through way too long to go into here.
b, his brother is an electrician who recently helped us rewire our house, my bf did most of the labour to reduce costs, we kept asking when and how much money he wanted but he kept refusing. We knew he was already going through a rough patch with his wife (they'd split up twice previously and she had recently thrown him out again)It got to the point where he was spending nights in out house working, we told him he didn't have to but he said he preferred it to going home alone. Then comes along D and sticks his nose in saying were taking advantage of his brother, causing all kids of arguements, its got so bad now the the brother wont even take my Bf's calls anymore so were left with no lighting upstairs all cos this D poked in his nose!
c, the latest thing was this week, he has been on about selling his super tent for ages to raise some money, my friend mentioned to me she wanted to go camping with her husband and was looking to but one, we arranged for her to buy his and was going to pick it up for her yesterday, Friday evening we get a call saying he doesn't think he wants to sell it now, my friend had already booked to go away next weekend in it so i said that's fine if you don't want to sell it its yours etc but would you mind if she borrowed it for 2 days as you have let her down, his reply was to laugh for a few minutes then says no chance.
Im sick of this pathetic looser really, His family is sooo sensitive and the fact that he smokes weed all day long makes him even more paranoid so any little thing you say to him causes his paranoia to flare up then kick off, His ex has caused him the most hassle he even tried to kill himself, which my bf helped him get over, they are best friends and i know nothing will change but hes been really shitty to us by causing trouble so were left without lighting i just need a huge rant and for someone to agree that he is in fact a complete and utter nob! I feel better now!