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A.I.B.U. to Complain?

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RainboweBrite · 16/07/2011 22:14

Hi,
Newbie posting here, so please be gentle!

I tried to go camping today with my DH and DS(8), staying in a pod with decking rather than a tent. I was just saying to DH that I would never have decking in our garden, as it could be a nesting place for rats or mice. I am TOTALLY phobic of rats (to the point where I actually used to scribble out the word if I came across it in books when I was a child!) and not much better with mice.

Anyway, just as I'd uttered the fateful words, something scurried across the decking! DH later admitted he'd seen it go under the decking before I even started talking about it. I was really scared, as it was only about 2 p.m., but I convinced myself it was probably a mouse. Then a few minutes later, the creature scurried across the decking again, very close to the door, and there was no doubt, folks, it was indeed a rat :O. I was absolutely petrified. Luckily, we were all inside already, so DH locked the door and pulled down the blinds, while I paced up and down,trembling and sweating. Eventually, I calmed down enough to play a few games of cards with DH and DS, but I knew there was just no way I could stay there after that.

So, after a couple of hours, I gathered enough courage to RUN for the car and DH and DS drove me home, about an hour's drive away. They have gone back there to spend the night, as they don't share my extreme phobia. I feel much safer, but still rather anxious, and I doubt I will sleep that well tonight.

Finally, I get to the point: AIBU to complain about seeing rats in broad daylight practically in my accommodation in a woodland setting? DH feels the site owner should be made aware of this, so s/he can take steps to deal with the situation.
Please advise.
Thanks, Rainbow Brite.

OP posts:
thisisyesterday · 17/07/2011 15:38

but the rat wasn't running over their things. it was outside!

a rat might be running around your garden at home every single night and it would be the same effect.... you cannot stop wild animals from living in woodland!

Peachy · 17/07/2011 15:41

Exactly TIY; as it ahppens my garden has 6 foot walls anyway but I suspect the boys are ore likely to encounter rat urine from eating strawberries straight off the plants than in a decent well cared for site.

inform the site by all menas, that's nopt same as complianing.

jeckadeck · 17/07/2011 17:51

Severe phobias are terrible, you have my sympathy. I have one of spiders and it can dominate my life at times. But YABU if you expect people running an operation in the countryside to eliminate rats, its just impossible. Not much point complaining because there's bugger all that anyone can do. Maybe avoid camping if your phobia is that bad.

RainboweBrite · 17/07/2011 19:23

Update: DH politely let the manager know when they went back last night. He was very apologetic, especially when he heard I had to go home. Unfortunately, they are aware of the problem and have put poison underneath the decking areas, but the rats keep coming back. I am satisfied with the outcome, as I believe they are doing all they can.

Now I'm worried because my wellies were left outside on the decking overnight; I forgot to take them with me on my hasty departure! Would I be unreasonable to just chuck them away? DH has cleaned them for me, but I am still worried!

OP posts:
Tchootnika · 17/07/2011 19:37

Chucking away wellies: you would be VVU.
What on earth would be gained by throwing awawy a perfectly good pair of wellies?
Keep them, wear them, and use it as second step to overcoming rat phobia. (I think the first step was starting this thread.)

Peachy · 17/07/2011 22:07

If you don;t keep the wellies donate them

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