Back at the beginning of the year DH asked if I minded if he went away on a 4 night trip involving going up mountains (his main interest). I said "Fine, fill your boots" but actually I was thinking "Result 
". For background we are happily married, DH often works from home and spends plenty of time with me and the DC. He rarely goes out in the evening as is far more doing an outdoors stuff during the day sort of guy in his spare time so it is unusual for me to have nights home alone.
I have made plans for a girls night in (just me and a couple of friends, nothing wild), meeting up with friends at weekend who are my friends rather than family friends and lots of lovely feeding the kids and then eating pasta with a 
once they are in bed with my choice of telly or MN.
So in the last few days DH has been looking at the weather forecasts and saying it doesn't look good, he might cancel. I think if I had said "oh, it would be lovely if you stayed at home instead" he def would have done. Instead, horrified, I talked him into going saying he would only be moping around wishing he had gone (possibly true), it was a good time to go as the school holidays/our family holiday are coming up so we would have lots of time all together then (true) and that I had plans that didn't involve him so he would be on his own a fair bit anyway (true).
He is going tomorrow with proviso that he might come back early. But there is an atmosphere and his feelings are hurt. AIBU to have been looking forward to some time on my own? and AIBU to have found it terribly annoying when DH was thinking of cancelling at last minute?