Ds just recovered recovered from a nasty stomach flu which led to him becoming very dehydrated , for days we rang doctor after doctor he saw the gp who said he was fine u til the day after he was so lifeless we took him straight to hospital, he has recovered now thank god but dhs family
member told him that other family members have been very concerned about the state of our house , it is messy clothes and toys seem to grow by the second but it is never dirty , we also have a lot of things DVDs books etc but they are on shelves and that is how we like it and of course things are out of the way of ds.
The peoe who have apparently been talking about us behind our backs have no idea whatsoever of the year we have been through , pnd depression money worries and the most stressful house purchase you could ever I
agine ,on top of that I have been at risk of redundancy and placed into a
job I am not qualified to do ,tryi g to keep the house nice pretty
much on my own (dhsays he does loads but he doesn't not really) amd he is very depressed.
The peoe who have been sayi g they are so concerned have never once offered to help out with anything or have said anything directly to us they also live in a world of privilege and help something I do not
begrude them at all but there lives are very different to ours.
So now people are implying g ds illness is our fault and that we did not do enough to get him treatment ,like I said we spoke to numerous doctors and visited the gp the day before he was admitted who said he was fi e and not to take him to hospital as they would send us home , what do you do ? We trusted the opinion of several health
professionals.
I don't want to fall out with them but the idea they have been talking about us behind our backs without the slightest clue of how bloody hard this past year has been is literally making me see red.
We already feel like the poor relatives without being madeout to be the equivalent of Wayne and waynetta slob.
Aaaaaaaaaargh!
(and breathe)