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DP adding ex wife (again) on facebook

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SnotGrass · 25/06/2011 23:26

Dp's ex wife added him to facebook last year. All of a sudden he recently got a text kicking off accussing him of saying stuff about her and telling him to die. She then deleted and blocked him off facebook.

So since then he's said "well if she tries to add me again, I'll be ignoring her. No reason for her to be on my facebook anyway " etc etc

So this has been the situation for a few weeks now today she sends him a message saying she deleted him by accident and sent him another friend request. He then said to me "what shall I do? ignore it or will that just cause trouble?" Hmm ffs so I said "do what you want" so he's added her again!

AIBU to be pissed off at his lack of backbone?

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niceguy2 · 26/06/2011 18:46

I had this problem a few months ago. My ex added me as a friend on FB.

I had a think about it and decided that firstly if she wants to see photos of our kids, me & my partner all together then that was her lookout. And that by not accepting the facebook request would seem a bit well rude as well as a bit petty.

I agree with number1. Add loads of pics of you both, post lots of lovey dovey messages on his wall. And get him to do the same back.

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