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to ask what is so scary about ouija boards?

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OTheHugeManatee · 23/06/2011 10:38

Inspired by the 'paranormal experiences' thread.

I've never done a ouija board. But it's been mentioned several times on the 'paranormal' thread as dangerous, scary, and something you should never, ever do. But always in hushed tones, and without much detail of what actually happened to make people think they're so dodgy.

Can anyone who's used a ouija board and then vowed never to do it again please explain to me what's so creepy or dangerous about it, and what happened to make you think that?

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Empusa · 23/06/2011 22:56

I shall tell you my ouija story, and pray the other person isn't a MN member..

DH and I are sceptics (AKA sensible) and a couple we are friends with were trying to convince us that Ouija works. The wife was telling us that since she was a child she'd "spoken" to a spirit who we shall call Casper. Casper had told her she would die young, and to prove to her, Casper told her a secret that no one else could possibly know. Casper had of course told her this while she had her finger on the glass, but she didn't push it, oh no.

When I expressed cynicism at this she decided we would contact Casper.

So we settle down in front of a hand drawn Ouija board (useful info: apparently spirits only reply on a Ouija board if you draw squiggly curly letters - so we were assured). She'd carefully drawn A-Z, and written down Yes, No, Heaven and Hell.

So she began,
"Are there any spirits there?", this was repeated many many times before eventually the glass moved to "No".
"Are you from heaven or hell?" she intoned. Casper replied, fairly predictably, with "Hell".
And then the glass started to move across the board, going from the corner closest to me, to the corner closest to her. Over and over again.

Here's a useful bit of info. We were sat at opposite corners, my DH and her DH were sat at the other two corners. It turns out they were sweeping the glass from side to side.

She of course told them off, and it was left to me and her.

The glass stopped moving for a long time. I kept getting told off for going to leave the glass, and drink from the infinitely more interesting one filled with malibu and coke.

Eventually the glass went again, interestingly her finger also went white underneath the nail. In the strangest coincidence it looked exactly the same as when she pushed down on the glass. Can't think why Hmm

But then it got really fun. "WHY AREN'T YOU MAKING ANY SENSE? STOP PLAYING GAMES!!" she screamed at Casper while frantically dragging the glass round the board. My DH pointed out she was getting a little too angry about it (while trying to stifle giggles), "Oh no.." she replied, "do you think I might be [dramatic pause] possessed?!"

At which point we told her "yes", and made our excuses and left.

Sleepingonthebus · 23/06/2011 22:57

I used one with friends when we were teenagers.

We were asking questions, and the glass was jiggling a bit, but wasn't doing any whizzing around the board. One of my friends thought it was a good idea to put a crucifix from a necklace on the top of the glass.

Then, the glass flew off the board and landed in the corner of the room. The crucifix ended up elsewhere in the room, nowhere near the glass. The board was on the floor, so the glass couldn't have fallen off the end. The board hadn't moved.

We were terrified. We took the glass outside and smashed it on the ground. We thought we'd be ok if we did that. I've no idea what any of these things mean, but I would never go near a board again.

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Empusa · 23/06/2011 23:20

I went to pick a glass up once and it exploded. I barely touched it. Did I assume it was spirits? Or did I assume it had a flaw?

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 24/06/2011 03:40

According to Wiki, automatic writing using a planchette was known as 'fuji' in China c1100 BC, and was widely practised in Greece, Rome, ancient India and in medieval Europe.

The Ouija board as we know it was invented c1890 and is now sold as a toy, but I do not believe that it is a suitable game for children or impressionable young people who are under the age of 21.

If anyone intends to use a talking board I would suggest they take the following precautions:

Do not treat it as a joke.
Do not participate if you are ill, or if you have mental health issues or are of a nervous disposition/susceptible to suggestion.
Do not participate if you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Do not use the board in a cemetary, graveyard, or any place where an unnatural death has occurred.
Do not ask for the date(s) of death of any living being.
Do not ask for money or (old superstition) where gold is buried.
Do not burn a Ouija/talking board.

The first time you use any talking board symbolically cleanse it by sprinkling salt around it (on the table/floor), bless the board (say* 'blessed be this board and may it only attract spirits who work for the force of good'), and place a silver coin on it at the beginning of every session.

To begin a session, Christians can say a prayer and ask God/Jesus/Holy Ghost/Archangels to protect them, and all (whatever religious persuasion) can say 'I/We call upon any helpful spirits present who work for the force of good to aid my/our quest'

Wiccans/occultist can cast a circle of protection if they wish; if you are athetist/agnostic or have other beliefs, use visualisation to protect the board and all present. Imagine a beam of white light shining down upon the board. Inhale the light and exhale it until the board/table and all present are contained within the light before commencing.

End the session with a prayer of thanks and ask the spirits to depart in peace followed by Amen, or thank the spirits that have come to your aid and say 'depart now and let there be peace between us evermore. As my will so mote it be' when closing the session,

If a light protection visualisation has been performed, gradually inhale the light and exhale it back to the beam and then 'see' the beam fade away before thanking the spirits and closing the session.

If, during the session, the planchette starts to go through the letters or numbers in forward or reverse sequence, turn the planchette upside down and close the session immediately.

If the planchette moves to 3 corners of the board and starts to head for the 4th, turn it upside down and close the session immediately.

Store the board in a place where it will not be disturbed with the planchette upside down.

As a final word of caution, be aware that spirits can lie and can use flattery and trickery use to make the unsuspecting dependent on the board/their communication with them.

Please note that the above does not indicate that I personally abscribe to the conventional religious meaning of the word 'spirit' or 'spirits', or that I believe in the forces of good or evil, or that I believe in the supernatural as such.

*use the words suggested or use whatever you feel comfortable with.

MrsDistinctlyMintyMonetarism · 24/06/2011 04:23

I was always much too sceptical as a teen to be interested in ouija boards too busy reading true crime books and Agatha --Christie.

Now, in my mid 30s, and having come to the conclusion that something odd goes on in my head (loads of deja vu, odd feelings that stuff is occurring) I would love a go.

Contrary? Moi? More things in heaven and earth, Horatio.

nooka · 24/06/2011 04:38

I enjoy reading fantasy, but recognise it is essentially load of escapist twaddle.

We had an outbreak of Ouija boarding when i was at school until the headteacher banned it, as she said it was a mechanism for bullying. For me that would be the obvious danger - credulous /naive people being frightened by the unscrupulous.

fridakahlo · 24/06/2011 04:50

Why did I just read this thread, even with all the reassuring sceptic people on here, I am feeling a tad freaked out. Not that anything ever happened on the few occasions I tried it out.

tummytickler · 24/06/2011 11:01

izzywizzy why should you close the board if it goes through the alphabet on sequence or goes to each of the four corners? What does it mean?
I have nothing really to add, but I have been reading with interest, unsure what I believe, although if I was a spririt, presumably I could do anything, and this is not what I would choose!
We used to muck around on these loads when I was a teenager, and it always 'worked' , but not terribly interesting. I was told the name of the man I owuld marry, but only the first name (Joe) , but there are loads of Joes in the world, so just coincidence.
However, we often used to do it on my lovely antique mirror (not sure why!), never thought about it at the time, but ever since ,the mirror really gave me the creeps. I 'accidently' left it behind when we moved house several years ago.

Pussinflatboots · 24/06/2011 11:24

As a teenager I asked a board if I'd end up with then boyf forever. It said no because he would marry X (name of someone neither of us knew). 15 years later, he did. Not a common name in the uk as she's not British.
I then asked who I was speaking to. It spelt the name of his mum (who died when he was 4.

CrapolaDeVille · 24/06/2011 11:26

FFS it's a toy. The only thing scary is the amount of lobotomised idiots who believe that they are scary.

worraliberty · 24/06/2011 11:28

Yeah right

Sorry Pussinflatboots I don't doubt for a second you really believe that...but on the other hand please think about why you believe it.

Empusa · 24/06/2011 11:29

"Why did I just read this thread, even with all the reassuring sceptic people on here, I am feeling a tad freaked out. Not that anything ever happened on the few occasions I tried it out."

So your own experience has said it does not work and yet you still believe?

pranma · 24/06/2011 11:41

We did this for a while when we were students and did get some odd results.Whenever I was playing the glass kept spinning to a particular date later that year.My lovely Grandma died on that day.It also said that I would marry my then boyfriend but we would not grow old together[true we divorced] but it said that we would die together.I was terrified when he died a couple of years ago! It also said I would die aged 76-that seemed like a good deal at 19 but now,at 67,I hope it was rubbish.It said that the messages were coming from a young Canadian named Asher or Ashen who had drowned after falling through ice when he was 19.We tried to find a way to check but it wasnt possible in 1963-cant remember all details now.To be honest if began to feel very wrong-the room went cold when we did it and a couple of times the glass spun so fast it flew off the table other times it just made a cross over and over again.I would never do it again and feel afraid now while I tell you about it.

Pussinflatboots · 24/06/2011 11:45

worra Not sure I do believe it, am little miss cynical about most things. Who I was speaking to is obvious; didn't think about the girl's name meaning anything until he met and married her. Coincidence probably, but is my only brush with the dark side Grin.

valiumredhead · 24/06/2011 11:49

Was just about to post about Derren Brown but calamitykate summed it up beautifully!

alemci · 24/06/2011 12:04

I have never used one but my friend did when she was a teenager and a boarder. she was quite into the occult. I am a christian and feel it is best to leave these things alone.

If you read most of the posts using a ouja board does not seem to have a positive outcome for anyone. Best to live each day at a time IMO.

onagar · 24/06/2011 14:29

Bit puzzled that Christians can believe any of it. Shouldn't dead people be in heaven with their families (or possibly in hell depending on which Jesus you believe in) rather than possessing game boards?

Riveninside · 24/06/2011 15:31

Dont christians believe in demons and suchlike?

onagar · 25/06/2011 20:15

Some christians may believe in demons (though most seem to be phasing them out as not fashionable) but surely you'd be horrified if grandad, instead of being in the arms of jesus like you were taught is reduced to floating around making glasses move.

seeker · 26/06/2011 08:05

Why is it that spirits always seem to tell you stuff you kow already? Wouldn' the lottery numbers be more useful?

Would you rather have "Granny loves you very much" or "Put a tenner each way on Ectoplasm in the 2.45 at Ripon"

CheerfulYank · 26/06/2011 08:19

It's scary because my friend made me watch this movie constantly when we were ten. It scared the living poo out of me and I've been slightly wary of the things ever since. :)

faverolles · 26/06/2011 09:18

Just read a ouija instructions website (as you do!). If the glass moves to all 4 corners, it means you have contacted an evil spirit. If it moves through the alphabet, it is trying to take control of the board.

Also read this gem - "Lecherous spirits from the Ouija board will sometimes ask young women to do rather . . . ah, odd things. Ignore them and always remember that your Ouija partner (i.e. boyfriend) has nothing to do with this." Hmm :o

Lorenz · 26/06/2011 09:20

haha I love the "my sister's friend's cousin's girlfriend did one and she died 7 days later" posts. Takes me back to my school days Grin

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