Thanks for the above bogeyface. The last payslip I have for him dates back to 2006 and states his average salary for that year was £61k. The last letter I recd from the CSA showing how his contribution is calculated is dated May 2008. There is no mention of his housing costs or protected income only :
his net income is x
Number of children he has is y
The amount i will receive is Z
For the last 2 years he has been paying less than z (by £35 per month) so again he is in arrears but they dont seem to want to chase him for them.
My case maybe a bit odd because it is "clerical" as their super computer 'ate' my claim when I originally applied so it all has to be done manually therefore phoning them and speaking to someone is close to impossible as they do not easily have access to my records.
My frustration is that I do not agree that his nett income is X. I know that he gets large bonuses and shares but if they are not on the payslips he provides they dont get taken into consideration.
I know that some fathers manipulate the system by loading up their pension contributions to reduce their nett income and I can only assume that is what has happened here (ah yes and he now has a company car - not that he does any milage for his job, he just likes having a merc on his drive - one of the perks of being a branch manager).
He refuses to pay anything additional towards his DS's school fees, trips or medical stuff (DS has special needs) and doesnt have any realistic contact with him (about 10 hours in the last 12 months).
I rely on his financial support in the absence of any emotional support as my working hours and therefore income are limited by having to be available to my DS 24/7 as his father isn't/wont/cant take responsibility for any of his care.
My experience of the CSA is obviously very different to yours and knowing how c**p they have been over the last 6 years I have trouble trusting them to get anything right, or even to put right when they have got it wrong.
I know I should be greatful I get anything (and really I am) -I just dispair of the fact that I suspect his contributions do not reflect his genuine income. 