To feel a bit judged when dressed in low cut top or short skirt when around religious men?

[organicjules]

I don't make a habit of wearing very little clothes but when dressed up on a night out I do find myslef trying to cover up because I'm scared of being 'judged' in restaurants, even on my wedding day in front of the vicar I worried about what he would think of my strapless dress, AIBU?

Who cares if someone is judging you, they can think whatever they like as long as they keep their traps shut.

Also 99% of the time nobody gives a fuck what you are wearing because they just don't care.

Dog collars on priests/vicars are sexy. I am pretty sure I am going to hell for the rather impure thoughts I had when on a visit to the Vatican, was like a smorgasboard!

My wedding dress had off the shoulder sleeves, just show really not real sleeves IYSWIM, I did get married in church, three ministers were there too - two of them being my grandads! There was a slight embarrassment over my cleavage as when I leaned over the register which had been set up on the stage, the top dropped slightly flashing the congregation and when I sat up to bring it up my minister was looking down and got the same view as my guests!

Even with my family taken into account I don't worry about what I wear. Neither grandad would comment.