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To think council estates are actually quite nice?

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Cattleprod · 16/06/2011 12:38

I went to an event at one of the local Childrens Centres this week. It's right in the middle of what could be described as the roughest estate in town, with a bad reputation going back decades. The sort of place you might think twice about venturing into alone at night.

It was a beautiful sunny day. The roads were all well maintained and clean, with plenty of free parking. There were open, grassy areas - not just designated play areas but also amongst the houses and flats, although there were at least three playparks with modern equipment, nicely fenced and clean, and large open areas for football etc. There was even a skate ramp. There was a small row of shops and take-aways, including a post office (rare these days), and beautiful mature trees dotted all over the place. Yes the housing was very plain and basic looking, but someone had put in a bit of an effort to make the blocks of flats look a bit less bleak. Most of the gardens were colourful and well looked after. The only downside was the derelict pub, but even that was in the process of being refurbished.

Compared to modern private estates with their tiny houses crammed in and very little on-street parking, and older Victorian terraces with no communal outside space, I was surprised to find myself appreciating how lovely this supposedly awful housing area was (in the daytime anyway).

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usualsuspect · 16/06/2011 22:18

I love my council estate ..loads of green spaces and trees ..co op just across the road

Post office,papershop and takeaway 2 minutes walk away

Schools within walking distance

Neighbours that look out for each other

On a decent bus route

Icoulddoitbetter · 16/06/2011 22:18

Have a wander round some of the estates in Tower Hamlets, or drive down the A12 in London and look at the massive monsterous blocks and you see how they are all very different.

I lived on an estate up North for a while as a teenager, it didn't look too bad, quite a bit of green space, but it went down hill because of the residents and I would never want to live there now.

My mum lives in what's now HA, previously council, property in a posh village, totally different world!

Kallista · 17/06/2011 00:30

No-one knows what goes on in a place until they've lived there.
Also what upsets or scares one resident may be fine with another.
I grew up on a mixed private / rented / council estate in a country town. There were 2 other estates; one all council, and one private with large homes.
All 3 estates go through bad periods depending on the residents at the time - crimes and antisocial behaviour get committed regardless of wealth or class.
The worst thing is getting a gang of kids whose parents don't discipline them or care what they do.
Also if you get dealers or prostitues moving nearby - especially in a block of flats.
It doesn't matter who owns the block or how nice it looks - it quickly becomes an intimidating place to be (as my sister found out).

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