She's 200 miles away and won't move because of my 90 year old grandma, but she's missing out on so much. My dd's are 7 and 3 and these are the golden years in my opinion. She won't even think about moving closer until my grandma dies (but hopefully that could be years away). Is it wrong to hope she'd move closer? Have thought about moving ourselves, but jobs are here and we would have to pull kids out of school.