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To be in tears over a sofa

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flibbertigibbert · 06/06/2011 14:00

Me and DP have been saying for a while now that we needed to replace our current sofas and get a corner sofa, which makes sense in our smallish living room. Yesterday we went to DFS and DP decided there and then that he wanted to buy a sofa. This was the first shop we'd been in, and we hadn't even measured the living room. I'm of the opinion that you don't buy a sofa on the first shopping trip. As far as I was concerned, the shopping trip was just to get ideas.

This is the sofa DP decided that he loved - it is very comfortable but I thought it looked really tacky because of the arms and bottom being a different colour. I wanted to look around at some others first. DP started making jokes with the (pushy) sales guy and saying 'this is how men shop', ie, they just get on with it and don't need to look around. He also got sucked in by the '50% off ending today' thing - well, the sofa is still 50% off, and probably always is because it's so hideous.

I've measured the living room and I feel sick - the sofa is going to literally take up two walls and will completely dominate the room. I got home and saw this on the website which I think is so much nicer and smaller. I'm so angry with DP for making such a big decision without thinking it through, and trying to make out I was being difficult for not wanting to buy it instantly, and with myself for not giving a firm 'no' because I couldn't be bothered to have an argument. We had an agreement that DP would replace the living room furniture and I would do up the kitchen, which I now see was really stupid as it made it harder for me to say no.

Really don't know what to do now as this bloody hideous thing is turning up in 5 weeks.

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Pandemoniaa · 06/06/2011 23:35

Your choice is much better but actually, I'd not go to DFS at all. Nearly all their sofas are hideous as well as hideously over-priced and not known for wearing well.

Daenerys · 08/06/2011 11:11

i disagree regarding corner sofas!! we have

www.dfs.co.uk/sofas/corner-sofas/ainsley/

you can fit 4 people on it easily and there's still room for someone to use the chaise just to sit down on it.

we don't have it in orange btw.

and it's stupidly comfortable.

the only downside is - we had to wait from january till the middle of may to get it! >_

mummytime · 08/06/2011 11:32

We have this in brown leather with pipping. It takes up most of the sitting room, but all of us can sit on it (2 adults, 1 long teen, 1 normal sized teen and a little one) with space to spread.
It was built to order in China and took 2 months+ to come.
But I don't take DH shopping unless we already have a pretty clear idea of what we want (in our case a crucial factor was that everyone felt comfortable on it).

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