to feel hurt with my friend?

[Mumof2teens]

My (good) friend's DS and mine have been in the same football team for 5 yrs, we stand & watch together & share lifts. Today she called me to say her DS has been training & to a tournament with another team (must have been over last 2-3 weeks) & is leaving along with another boy. AIBU to feel hurt that she didn't tell me earlier that he was doing this? I had no idea this was happening. My DS's team will now probably fold as several boys leaving. Don't blame the boys for moving teams but just feel upset that my friend didn't tell me sooner.

Why should she have told you sooner?

YABU - her DS wants to play with another team. I cannot see what is the problem here. If your DS's team folds he will have to find another team.

Such is life.

But she's telling you now YABU, sorry. She's allowed to do different things to you.

Well, she's a good friend & the boys walk to school together every day and play football together every Sunday & we watch together/share lifts. Just thought it would have been nice to know it was coming, she had told other friends just not me. Do say if you think IABU.

Yes YABU.

and a tad obsessive

Well, that's told me then!

Maybe her son wanted to change teams. Its his life.

maybe she was nervous about telling you