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AIBU?

to be pissed at DH playing golf again this avo?!

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Lisatheonewhoeatsdrytoast · 03/06/2011 12:48

So i called DH this morning on his mob, general chit chat, talking about being 25c here (scotland so a rare thing) and what not! So he comes out with "boss closing office this avo at half 2, since it's so nice" Fab i thought maybe we could do something with DS, instead of me doing something on my own with him like every other afternoon. But he says "i'm going to play golf, so i'll be in about 6" which is bloody later than he would be in if he worked his normal hours today!
Then he has the cheek to say, we can do something tonight?! DS is 2.5 by 6ish he'll be on the way to passing out for bed!
I just said "whatever" as he knew i wasn't impressed, and he hung up.
AIBU? It's one of the nicest warmest days today, tomorrow is to be 13c here and i thought we could do something together?!
Plus he played golf after work on Wed until 9:30pm with my cousin, and did the same on Sunday! If you mention anything to him he goes..."i need me time, i have a stressful job blah blah"
And he normally would play football tonight, but made it out like he had cancelled his 8-9 football as a grand gesture so we could do something!?
Maybe IABU but what do you think?

Sorry i did rant

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Deaddei · 03/06/2011 18:51

Hard when you have had young children all day.
Dh plays golf about 5 times a week, but I relish it as dcs are 14 and 12, and I can more or less do what I want.
Make sure you book a Saturday off....I had every Sat afternoon off from when dcs were 6 weeks old, and it certainly helped my sanity.

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clam · 03/06/2011 20:23

My DH was offered golf membership as a gift from his mum when I was pregnant with DS. He declined, saying it would detract from family time too much. He stuck with hobbies that were shorter or could be done after DS was in bed. And he always made sure he pulled his weight around the house before he went out, such as doing the weekend shop with DS in a sling or whatever, to give me a break to do whatever I might want. That's the fair thing to do. Now the DCs are older, he's taking up golf again - and I'm thinking of joining him!