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Child benefit

8 replies

Sallyha · 02/06/2011 14:25

I went to work abroad on my own for about a year in 2009 because both of husband and I had become unemployed. He stayed in the UK to look after our daughter, who was then 15. He then got a job and I came back in March last year. I did inform the Inland Revenue when I left and returned. A few weeks ago I received a letter from Child Benefit informing me I owed HMRC more than £1,000 because they had paid my daughter's child benefit into my account when I was away. I filled in a form giving the details and reasons for my absence. This was rejected and I had to call them to ask why. I did and was told the case officer would call me within five days. They didn't. This morning I received a letter from the HMRC's debt collection demanding payment, even before I made my appeal, which is not due for at least two weeks. I don't understand why I have to pay back the money since my daughter had remained in school in the UK. I have been unemployed since my return and certainly can't afford any spare cash, let alone pay such a big debt. Anyone has the same experience and could offer some advice as how to tackle this issue please?

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fgaaagh · 02/06/2011 14:27

YABU.

Riveninside · 02/06/2011 14:31

Surely your husband and child were entitled to the child benefit?

Hammy02 · 02/06/2011 14:33

So OP, if you no longer have the money, where did it go? Did you send it to your DP?

tiredgranny · 02/06/2011 14:37

y did u not have paid to husbands acc hope u wer not claiming tax credits as well if u were in the eu u might b ok but in reality it shoild have been paid to u husband/partner

TheLadyEvenstar · 02/06/2011 14:38

OP, why did you not have it transferred to your husbands account while you were away? And if it was in your account you must have spent it tut tut

JeremyKylesPetProject · 02/06/2011 14:40

Should it have been paid to you anyway? Surely your husband should have claimed it. Not you. I think this proves it tbh.

youarekidding · 02/06/2011 14:43

I had problems with HMRC when I worked abroad for a UK company being paid by them (so was classed UK resident) but my P worked in said country and paid by them.

We were entitled to CB/TC due to me being 'in UK'.

We made a joint claim and had months of arguments as P didn't have NI no. Eventually I was told to make a claim as a LP which I refused to do as 1) I would get more than actually entitled too and 2) they wouldn't back pay til birth and I could only get it until my SMP ended (had 2 months left) as I didn't intend to go back to work for the same co. (they couldn't offer me suitable employment hours).

Won CB claim in a few weeks.

We fought etc and found/stated the reason we were entitled. Would they listen? er no. 3 years later I went to an indpendent tribunal (arranged by HMRC) with the doosier 1 inch thick they had sent me - and won from the letter on page 1 I'd sent which explains entitlement. Hmm Grin Tribunal was 3 minutes from intro's to end.

If your DH and DD remained in UK then as a family you are entitled. It should have gone into your DH account as he was the carer but you could argue your married so share funds.

BTW was it a joint account?

shirleyshortcut · 02/06/2011 15:06

did husband claim it as well, so you got it twice?

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