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To say "no" to any type of anal sex?

39 replies

Ashley80 · 28/05/2011 00:08

My current partner is incensed that I won't have anal sex with him (of any description). He was fine with it until he realised that I have done various things with previous partners. What's his problem?! Tried it, didn't like it very much and don't want to do it again.

Anyone got any experience of this??!

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WeirdAcronymNotKnown · 28/05/2011 06:50

LOL at 'yardstick'

There's an image for before 7am! Hmm

He's an immature twat if he keeps sulking about this. Pleeeease tell him "I will if you will first" and see what he says :o

hsurp · 28/05/2011 07:14

If you don't want to do it, it is ALWAYS unreasonable for him to bring it up to you. Keep telling him that you did not like it and it's not for you. If he doesn't like it, he is NOT for you!!!

ElectricSoftParade · 28/05/2011 08:09

"Your arse, your rules" Total perfection Grin

TheFlyingOnion · 28/05/2011 09:15

anyone else noticing the unusually large number of slightly out-there threads started by users who then never come back and comment again?

Weird....

Haecceity · 28/05/2011 09:18

If you already know that you don't like it, why does he think that somehow you'll like it with him?

You don't like it. End of story.

If he's 'incensed' about it, then he's a twat. Buy a massive dildo and tell him that before you will be the receiver, HE must be. So bend over.

I find that fewer men think anal is such a fab idea when it's their arse getting something rammed up it.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 28/05/2011 10:08

FourFingeredKitKat... then you use a butternut squash. Grin

MrsGaGaGo · 28/05/2011 10:11

This is what I said to my ex. If you want to fuck my ass I will fuck yours (I've a 8 inch vibe) he soon dropped the idea.
Try that but if he's a total pervert he may like it.
Dirty bastard it's a exit hole only

strawberrymewmew · 28/05/2011 10:28

Me and my DP used to do this quite a lot usually when I was drunk enough to not feel pain and after a while I started to quite enjoy it.
But it isn't for everyone, and he's being completely U to make you feel pressured into it.
I agree with all the others who suggest to ram something up him and ask him if he enjoys it.

FourFingeredKitkat · 28/05/2011 10:36

LyingWITW Splutters out morning tea...

TheSecondComing · 28/05/2011 10:37

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AnyFucker · 28/05/2011 11:41

perve thread

how strange he has never been back

TiggyD · 28/05/2011 11:48

Buy this

nurseysclone · 30/05/2011 08:07

Tried it a little, but the bigger the partner, the more uncomfortable it is, been trying to put it off for a few months now blush

BibiBlocksberg · 30/05/2011 23:29

OMG - TiggyD, just seen your link and had to thank you so much for the happy memories.

Aaaaah, the day I went to see the giant butt plug was one of the happiest of my life Grin Grin

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