Having lunch with 4 girlfriends, youngest of the 4 (about to hit 30) informs me she doesnt like my hair as it is, AT ALL, and preferred it dark, as last year. Me ..Oh!!!
for info I am naturally dark, always bobbed, but started covering the greys with dark permanent colour, then realised i was doing it nearly every 2/3 weeks, and so sat in the hair dressers for hours, had it all stripped and now every 12/14 weeks have touch ups of light shades, I actually like my hair, currently growing it down from a sort of mid life crisis chop, so its folded behind my ears.
2nd friend sat in silence said nothing. 3rd friend just under awkward pressure replied, both styles are nice (NICE!!!! worst descriptive word ever) 4th said she did like current style, but preferred it dark!
should I be thrilled that i have friends that can be honest with me, and take thier critisicm boldly, or should i tell friends 1 & 4, to look in a mirror at thier failure attempts to have Catherine Middleton locks, before they comment on mine! inpaticular friend 2 in confidence told me she had mistake friend 1 to be about to turn 40 and not 30!, her hair is that bad!
(I came home from lunch and actually rang my dh in work, in a flap, and my Hair appointment is re-scheduled for this week)