Okay if an infant aged one is in foster care, the social workers have found an adoptive family for the infant. They take it to the big court hearing and just need the go ahead from the judge.
The mother, mother and baby unit manager, and court appointed child gaurdisan all go into court saying 'she needs a chance WITH support, hasn't done anything wrong, we have a mother and baby unit place for her waiting.
This was my situation.
You're telling me it would NOT have been cheaper to just adopt him out? (and easier, no time consuming calls outs to see me and my son, no One grand a week mother and baby unit costs).
Because as my barrister and soliciter said, it certainly seemed like a funding issue.
There's no reason I wouldn't have coped. I had no drug addiction, was feeling low AT THE SITUATION but was fully willing and begging to go to a mother and baby unit.
Had a baby 4 yrs later whom I'm looking after perfectly well, with no support.
Where the hell do they get off?
You're telling me in my situation, putting my DS through the adoption wasn't the cheaper quick option?
After all, adoption meant they didnt have to bother themselves with supporting or checking on me with DS.
CERTAINLY seemed like adoption was the easiest, less costing thing.
Especially when the adoption targets would have been in place.