I?m getting really peed off with two family members. My cousin ? who is more like a sister to me and my Auntie ? who I consider to be a second Mum. But recently I can?t help getting really annoyed by their selfishness. My cousin is going through a bit of a rough time (to do with an ex) and at the height of the situation I went round to see her, bought her gifts/cards and constantly text to check she was (and still is) doing ok. She recently complained to me that my sister in law hadn?t once asked how she is doing ? so I thought she?d appreciate the support I?m giving her and maybe give some back?
I?m now 6 months pregnant and she?s not asked me once how I am. I sent her a text with my 20 week scan picture on and she didn?t even reply. I had to ask her if she?d received it ? which she had. I had a bit of a scare a while back (all ok now) and asked my Auntie for advice ? she said to call the midwife which I did yet I didn?t hear from my cousin once and I?m not sure my Auntie even mentioned it to my cousin.
I ask weekly how the family are etc (to Auntie) and get all their updates ? happy and sad. Yet I know my Mum told her we?d ordered baby?s pram yesterday and three emails later she still hasn?t mentioned it or asked how I am.
In all honesty I?m fine and don?t need fussing ? but I?m pig sick of worrying about her and constantly remembering to contact her on important dates etc ... when she doesn?t seem to give a damn about me.
Am I being unreasonable to want to be asked how I am too?