Ok, in short form so you don't lose the will to live...
I am 24 weeks pregnant. I have a 2 year old. I work full time (0900-1730) 5 days a week. My husband works away all week, leaves Mon morning, home Fri night. We are trying to sell our house - so every day before I leave for childminders / work I have to make sure place looks nigh on immaculate in case there are any viewings. I have no family nearby - so I have an arrangement with my childminder that if i had an emergency in the night i can call her. I can't actually call my husband - there is no signal where he stays. So I could call an emergency landline numbe, but otherwise I just have to wait for him to call at a more or less prearranged time. Whilst on paper we look relatively well off, we have house, car etc, by the time the bills are paid there's not much left. OH is spending freely on god knows what (not worried he has hidden vice, just that he's useless with money but denies it, and never thinks twice). I barely spend anything. He spends more in 5 days when he has meals provided than I do on a weekly shop. I am working my butt off to secure a promotion before mat leave which has been promised pending a sign off, but am starting to think that they might just be keeping me dangling so they get my services for free til I go on leave. I feel totally exhausted, emotional, sad. I don't feel like I can take any time off because they'll probably notch it up as pregnancy issues and use it against me (maybe I'm being paranoid) ... I just don't know what to do to help myself right now.
Not that short after all, but please do tell me if I should just man up, or if its ok to feel like this. As almost every phonecall this week has ended in tears...
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chinateacup · 19/05/2011 23:26
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